A vintage long sleeved Led Zepplin t-shirt I was given for my 15th birthday, an original Jasmine Hirst T-shirt and a drum head signed by all 3 members of NIRVANA – obviously pre 1994
But I think if the drawers of my late nanna’s dressing table were to ever loose her ‘ scent’ – that smell that instantly takes me back to being with her – Id give everything else up…and more to be able to get that smell back
Lelo are the creators of some of the most luxurious sex toys in the world, all of their products are incredibly high end including their range of sensual bdsm inspired products.
I am so excited that one of my readers will be winning a set of LELO’s Etherea silk cuffs worth $50! If you would like a chance to win visit my blog at its new address: www.screaming-violet.com And check out my Etherea silk cuffs giveaway
If you don’t Already Know
But lots of people are still visiting my blog here! I don’t want anyone to miss out so I’m going to publish a copy of my give away here as well, but Please NOTE: you need to visit the Death By Orgasm Give Away page at Screaming-Violet.com to make your comments and enter.
And just in case you missed it you must Visit my Give Away page in order to have your entries count – ok? you got that? cool – so here’s the info on my first sex toy Give Away
I’m very very Excited to announce my very first sex toy give-away that is very kindly being sponsored by the amazing folks at Good Vibrations!
As you should all know by now I live Down Under and sadly that means I can’t personally take part in the Good Vibes Review program as they only send items to reviewers within the US, bummer for me, but bonus for you as they have agreed to let me give away some products instead of reviewing them.
I’m pleased to announce that in the run up to Halloween I’ll be giving away The Death By Orgasm Scorpion, a slightly scary yet still sexy bullet vibrator with a stunning scorpion sleeve.
There’s a range of 5 toys in the Death By Orgasm line, the Werewolf, the Mummy, the Zombie, the Vampire & of course the Scorpion. They are all really cute water proof bullet style vibrators in a range of colors, but the Scorpion is the only one that comes with a stimulating sleeve. It is created from Elastomer and ABS Plastic & is powered by 3 watch batteries which are all supplied for you. It also has possibly the coolest packaging that I’ve ever seen for a sex toy, such cute little lined coffins that double as fantastic storage.
For each entry you must leave a comment, so for the bonus entries if it says (3 entries) you need to leave 3 separate comments.
The Prize will only be shipped within the US((however if you have a friend or family member in the US who can ship it to you once they receive it you are welcome to enter no matter where you live))
The Give Away is open until October 22nd. The Winner will be chosen using random.org and will be announced here on Screaming-Violet.com on October 23rd. The winner will then need to provide me with their postal address so that Good Vibrations can send you your prize.
If you have any questions you can email me at violet [at] screaming-violet.com
The First and Mandatory Entry:
Extra Bonus Entries;
**All comments are moderated and all entries will be checked for validity before they are published
Good Luck to Everyone who enters, If you have any questions feel free to email me violet [at] screaming-violet.com
& don’t forget to make your comments on the official Give Away page so that they will count
Violet xx
I’m still alive & kicking – well kinda!
Haven’t been around much online lately, real life’s been getting in the way of my cyberlife. I haven’t even logged in to Twitter lately to see what everyone’s been up to & whats going on in the world… I know it’s sacrilegious!!
But I managed to get my left and right feet completely confused and missed the bottom step as I walked out of the supermarket. I went ‘SPLAT’ like a starfish all over the footpath, groceries everywhere, coke bottles exploding and bread getting squashed. I’m sure it would’ve been a total sight.
According to the incredibly rude and dis-interested Doctor I didn’t manage to break or fracture anything, but the girls don’t agree. My Ankle has swollen up and looks somewhat like a squashed football, turning various shades of purple & blue. If only I had a camera and could show you – It’s kinda pretty in an ugly kind of way.
Anyway I think I may have mentioned a possible new FWB on twitter about a week ago. He’s actually quite sweet and nice, just a shame he doesn’t live closer. I met him online a few months ago, we got along well. He has great taste in music, is laid back and cruisey and there’s no doubt we’d hang out as friends all the time if he lived near by. Anyway a month or so after I met him, long before I could get my act together to go meet him some other woman snapped him up – my timing always sucks!! lol
Now another month or two later she spat him back out all chewed up and broken hearted. Some women fucking piss me off – I know not all relationships work out, but what she did really stinks. Waking up one morning to say ‘I don’t love you anymore’ and then showing him the door. Oh well, her fucking loss I guess.
It’s neither the deep seeded kind of connection I felt when I first met -B, but I doubt I’d ever feel quite that way about anyone else (There’s a huge long back story that started when I was 14 that made the whole thing with -B special) yet he makes me smile and laugh and feel somewhat special. But here’s the crux, I don’t want enough of a relationship to call anything committed, yet at the same time I know I’m never going to be able to just have totally anonymous sex with someone I’ve just barely met. Christ after months of fucking -B I never quite managed to let go and be as sexually uninhibited as I actually am, so can’t see it happening in a situation without any kind of emotional investment. Being insecure and having low self esteem coupled with I guess a negative self image can be quite inhibiting to ones sexual freedom.
I won’t be going anywhere for the next week or so due to my ankle & X taking the car just to be spiteful (Yet another massive fight with X last weekend) so I’ve got time to get to know him a little better and maybe even a chance to consult -B. Although I never let go physically with him, I can tell that guy anything, he’s like a rock sometimes. So that’s about it. I busted my ankle and am stuck high & dry & horny, hopefully this situation will resolve itself…..and soon.
Violet xx
When I first discovered the BeBe I was so ecstatic. I’d finally found an Australian Designed Toy created by Australian Women. If you haven’t already noticed I’m kind of passionate about both Australia and Sex Toys, so it was a total Win for me.
Add to that the fact that the lovely ladies behind the very beautiful BeBe are from Thirroul, a place very close to my heart and I just started jumping for joy inside– for those that know the Southern Sydney area I grew up in “the shire” and have been to ‘the gong’ more times than I ever could count.
When the lovely Kristine & Lisa, the inspirational pair of women behind the BeBe said they would send me one for review I was over the moon!
In order to give you a fair review I must admit I already had love for their Baby even before I laid eyes on her. But that love simply deepened after I got to play with her. See I call my BeBe ‘her’… ❤I really do love her❤
Her Beauty starts with the packaging & presentation of the toy. It comes gift wrapped with a book mark – which asks are you really interested in reading? No I want to play with my toy! lol.
Under the pretty paper that’s tied with a ribbon you will find a very plain looking cardboard box, it truly juxtaposes the stunning jewel hiding within. The BeBe has the most luxurious, creative packaging and storage I’ve ever come across. Designed not only to carry and care for its cargo, but to also be able to sit out in the open without looking like there’s a sex toy hidden within.
The elegantly adorned “Egg” that houses your BeBe opens up to reveal the toy. Nestled gently into its velvet lined container, when you pick up the BeBe she reveals her required 2 AA sized batteries nestled into their own nook. If its visual aspects weren’t delightful enough, there’s that extra sprinkling of joy when you realise you aren’t going to have to go searching for batteries before you can play! It’s these small little elegant touches that give the BeBe its high end look and feel.
The Egg shaped Storage reminds be a little of an Ostrich egg, but with its flat base it can fit into most people’s bedside tables at 13cm long x 6.5cm wide x 6cm high. Mine sits easily into the drawer of my dressing table, nestled amongst my underwear, but she could just as easily sit out in the open as it is so discreet.
Have I said enough about how great the packaging/ storage for the BeBe is? Want to hear about the actual toy itself now?? sorry I just love great storage and packaging!
The BeBe is an external style vibrator, along the lines of the layaspot and other clitoral vibrators, formed from sleek shiny Purple Plastic that is both Phthalate Free & body safe. Adorned with two simple to use buttons that together form a pretty heart, again form & function creating true beauty.
The buttons are both placed and programmed for easy, intuitive use. The BeBe moulds itself to both the curve. of your body and your hand with the controls perfectly aligning with your fingers as you hold it in your hand. To switch the BeBe on you just hold down the two buttons, causing a red light to illuminate around the heart shape of the buttons.
The two buttons are used to increase and decrease the speed and intensity of the vibrations. Unlike other toys you don’t need to keep pressing the buttons to cycle through the vibration patterns and intensities but rather you simply hold down the right button until it reaches the level you desire. It is also simple to decrease the vibrations by pushing the left button. To switch your BeBe off just simply hold down both the buttons for 2 seconds.
This is a function either forgotten or not cared about in a lot of sex toy designs. Often you must cycle through all vibration patterns before being able to switch the toy off, which isn’t something you want to worry about if you get caught whilst you thought the kids were asleep for their afternoon nap, or your flatmate arrives home unexpected etc.
The vibrations range from very soft and hardly there to OMG that feels amazing! The motor is placed in the nose, or tip of the toy creating strong, well focused vibrations. At the same time I found that the vibrations also travel throughout the body of the toy providing very enjoyable stimulation to the entire vulva adding an extra dimension of pleasure on top of the amazing clitoral stimulation. After discovering the joys of using clitoral toys whilst having sex with a partner due to my We Vibe2 I thought I’d give the BeBe a go and found it to be amazing. I’ve always been an external kind of girl, my best and most intense orgasms originate from from my clit so this toy is a perfect addition to my toy box for both solo and partnered play.
Even though she puts out some power packed sensations, she manages to do so without sounding like an electric drill. I could barely hear anything with the covers over me, and is inaudible through a closed door. Making this a great sex toy for those living in dorms or shared houses and especially those with little rug rats running about!!
The BeBe isn’t waterproof, so she shouldn’t be submerged, nor should she be placed under rinning water. Rather use a wash cloth and some warm water & disinfecting soap or disposable toy cleaning wipes. Pop the batteries out and put them to bed along with your BeBe between uses, this will ensure a long life for both your toy and your batteries.
I’m in love with my BeBe, so much so that other toys have been relegated to the box in my cupboard to make room in my dressing table for her. She is Elegantly designed and creates amazing pleasurable sensations, by far out performing some toys created by the big International companies. I’m so Proud that this little Gem is Australian just like me!
The only thing I can fault her on is not being waterproof, but she excels in all other areas I can’t help but forgive her for this single fault. The Girls have done such a great job in designing and creating the BeBe I hope they will be giving her some sibling toys soon!
If you would like your own BeBe, or would like to find out more about this stunning sex toy and the amazing women behind her visit www.lovebeingwoman.com …’because every woman deserves a little pleasure’
Thanks again to Kristine & Lisa for sending me the BeBe to review.
Violet xx
Managed to get my phone to co-operate with my laptop via bluetooth so that I can still take part in Wanton Wednesday despite my broken camera.
This photo makes my boobs look like they barely exist, but I’m just happy to have some form of camera working – even if the quality totally sucks!
Want to Join the Wanton Fun? Just Visit Wanton Wednesdays, grab your Camera & take part. I promise you’ll have fun!
Violet xx
p.s. I’ll get back to my regular sexual debauchery once I get this huge mess with money & X all sorted out. I may even have a new FWB to talk about soon, he’s sweet, nice and is full of life – so what I need. Plus great taste in Music – but he lives 2or 3 hours away, not sure if I want another long distance FWB, but have a feeling he’ll be happy to visit me 
This is totally crazy, whacked out & just out of the realms of normal…even for me, but I’m stuck deep & need to find someway out – somehow – and I’m going to extremes by actually praying. It worked once before, hopefully it works this time for this truly hopeless situation.
May the sacred heart of Jesus be adored,glorified,loved,and preserved throughout the whole world now, and forever.
Sacred heart of Jesus,pray for us,
St.Jude worker of miracles, pray for us.
St.Jude help for the hopeless,pray for us.
Say this prayer nine times a day, for nine days. By the eight day your
prayer will be answered. It has never been known to fail.
Publish this prayer,after you have finished saying it.
Here Endeth my relationship with organised religion again.
I promise to bring back your usual programming – once I get this stupid beaurecratic BS sorted out
Violet xx
After my Great and Brilliant Luck with winning 2 Sex Toy & Adult Product Give Aways both in the same week I’m kinda hooked, but also want to share the give away love with you all.
Essinem is giving away a lovely ‘Fancy Me kit’ from the folks at Good Vibrations – Hurry though as it ends soon, at at 11:59 PM PST on July 20th 2010. Visit her Give Away page to enter
The guys at Good Vibrations really are spreading the Sex Toy Love at this moment with another Two Give Aways. Why? Because It’s their Birthday, Grab yourself a bargain whilst they’re celebrating. I love when shops give great Discounts to celebrate their own birthdays!
The sexy @Mistress_Kay of Kinky-World.net Fame & Fantasticness is giving away a cool set of Door Jam Cuffs from Babeland.com worth $32. To Enter just comment on her Give Away Page and tell her your first or favourite Kinky Experience – Mine was having sex backstage at aFoo Fighters Concert – sadly it wasn’t with the hotness monster himself – Mr Dave Grohl, but still it was fun.
You can also get extra entries in this Give Away by following both @Mistress_Kay & @Babeland_Toys on Twitter & by re-tweeting the Give Away once a day – get over to her Give Away Page to find out more and enter – Closes July 29th Noon Central time.
NippleCharms.com are running a twitter contest – It’s very simple and straight forward, re-tweet their July Sales Discount Codes, sharing their great non-piercing body jewellery with your followers and you could earn yourself some of their Great Jewellery. Check out their Twitter Contest Page for more info. Contest Closes July 31st 2010
I’ve always wanted to get my nipple pierced, but honestly the thought of sticking a needle through my far too sensitive nipple has never really appealed to me – But the look without the pain, and the possible complications (I just can’t see how putting a hole through the end of your nipple Wouldn’t damage some of the ducts that milk flows through during breast feeding – I could be wrong, but it bothers me) of putting a hole in my nipple is a huge WIN. I’m especially in love with Janet Jackson style Sun Shaped Nipple Embracer -> Check em out here – too cool.
What better way to celebrate 3 years of hot & sexy blogging than by giving away a bunch of hot & sexy toys & other Products?
That’s exactly what True Pleasure’s is doing to celebrate her blogs 3rd Anniversary, With 5 different Prizes up for grabs. Including my Favourite Sex Toy in the world – the We Vibe2.
The Prizes up for grabs are:
★A Pair of Stringed Pearl Panties ((I HATE that word, knickers, undies, draws etc are all fine, but panties just feels so…prissy & something an old pervert like my grandfather would say!)) from NippleCharms.com
★ My Favourite Sex Toy – the We Vibe2 is up for grabs, supplied by the rocking cool people from Babeland.com - Seriously this toy has truly Rocked my world continuously for the past 3 months – now you have a chance to get one free!!
★Good Vibrations really are being Super Generous with the Give Aways lately, and have given True Pleasures a Plum colored G-Ki G Spot Vibrator to give away to one lucky guy or girl. – I’d love to get my hands on one of these!!
★There’s a Lelo Intima Silk Blind Fold up for grabs courtesy of the folks over at Vibrator.com
And Finally, there’s the Prize I’m after….
★Being given away by my Favourite Sex Toy Shop – Adult Sex Toys.com Is the Super Sleek & Sexy Mistress Dildo from Vixen Creations
There’s something for Everyone in this Give Away so head on over to True Pleasure’s 3rd Anniversary Give Away & enter to win your favourite prize. The winners will chosen at random & announced on Twitter August 2, 2010 @ 11:00 am CST
Dicks come in all shapes and sizes… well maybe not all shapes! Some are longer than others, some have greater girth, some bend up, others bend downwards, and some even divert off and point to one side. Some wear turtle-necks others wear army helmets. Just like their owners, each penis is an individual with no two being exactly the same.
According to Men’s Health Magazine, 79% of men are growers and the remaining 21% are showers. That is the majority of men gain both a noticeable amount or girth and length when they get an erection, whilst the rest just stand to attention without much visible growth in size. What I’d like to know is what percentage of men who fall into both categories? In the teeny tiny proportion of the male population whom I’ve had the pleasure to get acquainted with I have come across one penis that was both an impressive shower and a remarkable grower. So If I’ve come across 1, surely at least 1% can be both???
Getting an erection is all about blood flowing to the cock to enlarge and engorge its flesh. Smoking constricts veins restricting blood flow, therefore working against the creation of and the ability to maintain an erection. The negative effects of smoking on your circulation can cause you guys to loose up to 1cm in length! Quitting smoking is also the number one tip to improving sexual function (however I honestly doubt that 1 extra cm would make much difference!)
The average amount of blood it takes to engorge said penile tissue to create an erection is 2 Tablespoons! Whilst the average amount of semen per ejaculation is 1-2 teaspoons.
Most guys get no say as to whether or not they are circumcised, so those of you who aren’t happy that your folks decided to give you the snip as a baby may be happy to know it is possible to have your foreskin reconstructed. I doubt it would be a pleasurable undertaking,
however it is possible. It takes time to stretch existing tissue to re-create the foreskin, but with special rings, weights and other devices it is actually possible to go from circumcised back to the way you were born.
According to the world health organisation only 30% of the world’s male population over the age of 15 are circumcised
The word ‘ejaculation’ comes from a Latin word meaning ‘throwing out’
Not only do Gay men get to avoid dealing with bitchy wives and ex-girlfriends, on average their dicks are ⅓” longer than their straight counterparts.
When a male bee gets Lucky enough to get it on with the queen bee their genitals actually explode. They snap off in the Queen’s genital tract, ensuring no other male can fertilise her little bee eggs.
One in 400 guys are lucky enough to be flexible and limber enough to be able to give themselves blow jobs! – However in my own personal experience the guys that are scared to taste their own cum wish they could blow themselves, where as those who know how they taste and aren’t in anyway opposed to going down on their female partners post coitus dislike the notion of sucking their own dicks! Just my own personal observations.
A lot of guys may wish they had detachable dicks so they could give themselves head (If they aren’t the 1 in 400 lucky ones above!!), King Missile even wrote a song about a man loosing his detachable penis. What may be dreamed of by some species is fact for the Argonaut – a species of Octopus that has a form of a detachable penis. The male Argonaut produces a ball of spermatozoa in a special tentacle called a hectocotylus and upon meeting an attractive female his penis will detach and swim off on its own to inseminate the female.
According to a poll taken on an online dating site 48% of the male respondents admitted they had faked an orgasm at some point in their life.
But not in the way you’re thinking it does. It has been proven that the sperm ejaculated by men who are at the larger end of the size scale are stronger swimmers compared to the men at the smaller end. It’s also been shown that better looking men have stronger swimmers as well. So good looking guys with big dicks would appear to have the most potent sperm.
Finally to put those of you who stress out about how important size is – only 4% of women are critical of a man’s size. Women are far more concerned with your facial expressions and the noises your making than the size of your dick, and even then we are often more concerned about our performance and your enjoyment than the other way around In my opinion I’m more interested in the person connected to the penis than the size of it. If a guy has a huge dick but is a total dick, I’m going to be fucking his smaller mate who’s a decent guy.
that’s all for now
Violetxx
⚤Sex & Music ♫
Sex & Music are possibly my two Favourite Things in Life. When they combine – It’s bliss.
1. How often do you listen to music during sex? Do you wish you did it more often?
Barely ever, Life is so much better when it has a sound track. Same thing goes for my sex life. Sadly I’ve wasted so much time fucking someone who couldn’t give a shit what I like, so no music whilst fucking. I wish music was playing constantly – and as it’s never playing when I’m having sex I sure as hell wish it was playing more often.. even just on the odd occasion would be nice!
2. What are 5 songs that you love to have sex to? Why?
Who doesn’t want to have sex to Closer by Nine Inch Nails?
I’ve also always felt Israel’s Son by Silverchair has that perfect hip rocking girl on top style bass line – it’s hard to just choose 5!!
All My Life by the Foo Fighters – just cause it shows you just how dirty his mind is (you tube won’t let me embed the original – bastards!)
East Jesus No Where by Green Day- that opening riff – & the drum line
And I have to round out my top 5 with the song that makes me want to fuck the most – ‘No one Knows‘ by Queens of the Stone Age – featuring none other than Dave Grohl on drums (surely you get the theme running through this list
And ‘If loving you is wrong’ by faithless – well who doesn’t want to either get naked or fuck after listening to that. There’s Probably a hundred more I could list… I think its the bass line that gets me!
3. Have you ever given or received a lap dance from a professional? What about from a non-professional? Which did you prefer or which do you think you would prefer?
No 
, never even been to a strip club let alone had a lap dance & never had an amateur one either. I’ve seen a lot of strippers are parties and such giving lap dances & more, but even that was way too long ago.
4. Do you find when you listen to music while you have sex, that sex generally tends to follow the rhythm of the music? Do you use that advantageously?
Yes, yes & more YES. I suck at keeping a good rhythm going over an extended period of time, so music is definitely a plus if I’m in control of such things. Just one of the many reasons I’ve always wanted to fuck a musician
5. Does having music on make you feel more sexy?
Music – full stop turns me on as a whole, so hell yeah – Music definitely makes me feel sexier than silence.
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