WTMFI Wednesday #22 All About Anal

Anal Explorations

“That’s Tight”

This Week’s Questions

1. What are your thoughts on anal sex? Have you ever had it?
2. Do you enjoy watching porn with anal sex?
3. If you’ve had anal sex, what was your first time like? If you haven’t had anal sex and want to, what do you hope for your anal sex experience?
4. Do you own any sex toys for anal penetration? If not, do you want to?
5. Do you always use condoms or do you sometimes allow bareback?

BONUS QUESTION:
What are your thoughts on society’s negative views of anal sex?

1.What are your thoughts on anal sex? Have you ever had it?

I’m pretty open So my thoughts on Anal… Well I’m certainly open to it, but it’s certainly something that it up to the individual. I’d written it off for years & years before I decided to give it another go.

I’ve only ever had Anal with One partner, but there was over a decade between the first period of time I when  was having Anal with him and the second time we tried, and since then I’ve lost count of the number of times we’ve done it. But the first time round it was rather painful to start with, probably because I was young, naive and doubt there was any lube involved. Second time round it’s all been intensely pleasurable because I knew exactly what I was doing & understood how it all worked thanks to Alexa and her blog the realprincessdiaries.com.

Education & understanding how my body works as well as what’s going on when you have Anal made it so much easier. I look back on my initial foray into anal & think ‘how naive’ Would you go about giving birth without understanding the physical process? Anal’s so much easier & therefore fun if you know whats going on.

For more on the what, Where And How to’s of Anal check Out these three great Posts from the Aforementioned Alexa. Start out With Preparing for your first Anal; If I had of read this all those years ago before I even tried having Anal sex I doubt there would’ve been any pain, discomfort or worry of any kind. Wether you are male or female I recommend you read it, even if it is only so that you have a better understanding of how it all works. Guys if you like the idea  of having Anal sex with a woman I suggest you bookmark it, It’s helped at least one of my mates to venture into previously uncharted territory.

Enema’s and More on Anal Sex is like the secondary level of your Anal education from Alexa

Even now, re-reading it after turning into a total butt slut, there’s much to learn on the subject and knowledge is power. What better power to have than sexual power, so even if you’ve been fucking your ass off for years you still just might learn something.These two are the Main Anal articles on her site, but there are plenty more Anal Sex Posts on her blog - If you want to try out Anal read as much as you can both on her site and others.

2.Do you enjoy watching porn with anal sex?

Yeah, I honestly do. But I enjoy anal immensely and I watch a lot of Double Penetration Porn, I guess because it’s number 1 on my Sexual Bucket List.

But it’s Also Anal Porn that bothers me the most. It is simply not safe to do ATM or Ass To Mouth, I hate that it makes it seem in anyway acceptable and that it gives some the impression that they can request to stick their dick in your mouth after it’s come out of your ass. Same goes with Vaginal sex after Anal. There’s all kinds of bacteria up your ass, stuff you really don’t want in your Vag, I can only imagine the kinds of infections that could lead to. If you want to do Anal then stick it in another hole, wrap that dick in a condom for fuck’s sake.

3. If you’ve had anal sex, what was your first time like? If you haven’t had anal sex and want to, what do you hope for your anal sex experience?

The very, very first time I had Anal was about 15 years ago when I was 16. I must admit it was painful and only slightly pleasurable. I was doing it because he wanted to. The thought of needing, let alone using lube never crossed my mind, If we had used lube I doubt it would’ve been painful. If I knew than what I know know in regards to Anal sex I’m sure it would’ve been a hit & there wouldn’t have been a decade & a half between Anal Adventures.

I was scared to try it after my son was born, sadly haemorrhoids often develop during pregnancy as well as during the pushing part of the birthing experience. I got off pretty lightly in that department, but still it was an issue in my mind (I’ve found my mind is sometimes my worst enemy when it comes to sexual pleasure)

I also suffer from Endometriosis, a condition where the lining of the uterus (the Endometrium) decides to take up residence in places it really shouldn’t. My case is on the extreme end with it gluing all my pelvic organs together and deciding to migrate to both my lungs and the inside of my rectum and bowel. Don’t ask me how the heck it gets in such places, I just know it’s there and it causes me all sorts of issues. I was really worried about tearing things that might be stuck together, but some logical thought made me realise if something can come out without tearing anything, surely something could go back in.

So with Education, Information, Awareness of my own body & the all important lube, second time round Anal has been nothing but an absolute joy.

4. Do you own any sex toys for anal penetration? If not, do you want to?

I do, I have a stunning crystal Delights Plug I scored out of my sister, and also really enjoy my Glass Wand for Anal Play. When it comes to Anal Play with sex toys the toy MUST have some sort of flared base to ensure that it doesn’t slip inside – which would lead you to an embarrassing trip to the hospital to have it removed. Similar warning regarding Large toys and Anal Play. Unlike the Vagina the Rectum Doesn’t really stretch. You can gradually stretch what feels comfortable being inserted, but it isn’t going to stretch in length. Respect that fact, and the fact that pain means something is not right and you shouldn’t have any problems.

5. Do you always use condoms or do you sometimes allow bareback?

In no way do I recommend or condone having un-safe sex, especially un-safe Anal sex as there is a higher risk of contracting an STD such as HIV via Anal sex than Vaginal Sex. However most often My Anal Adventures have all been bareback – but also with the same monogamous partner I was with for 15 years. If ever I were to have Anal, or any form of penetrative sex with someone else there would most certainly be a condom involved.

Second time round we were using condoms for Anal until I was comfortable with it (they seemed to cause less friction & discomfort on entry), but that soon ended. It’s also important to use condoms with sex toys used for Anal Play unless they are able to be fully disinfected and sterilised like glass.

Bonus Question:

What are your thoughts on society’s negative views of anal sex?

I don’t really give it much consideration to be truly honest.But maybe the fact that the vast majority see it as being so taboo that makes it even more alluring and of course fun.

If you Want more Info On Anal Other Articles that may be of interest or assistance include:

New To Anal Sex - on the Frisky Blog – This article on Anal includes important information regarding the two different sphincter muscles and how they work. Kind of important to Understand so you don’t go hurting yourself by trying to go to fast, or trying to insert anything too big.

Anal sex from the library @ Rotten.com

And as much as it pains me to link to this site, they do have a rather good guide to Anal Sex Toys and Anal Play from the site that has become known for being the sex shop you can’t trust

Unless you are thinking about some full on Anal play I wouldn’t recommend you read this Article, but if you are looking to push your Anal Boundaries, this post could save you from serious damage & in extreme cases death. Sometimes Anal Play can go too far

My Sexual Bucket List

The Sexual Things I must do before I die

I saw a list on someone’s blog of 12 sexual experiences they wanted to have before they died. With a browsing history as long, vast and colourful as mine I’m not surprised that I can’t find the blog again. However I do know what’s on my personal ‘Sexual Bucket List’. A list of sexual acts &/or experiences I want to have, experience or explore before I die. I started out with 12 Things, but my bucket list stretched to 15 16, it may even grow in the future, but for now this is my List:

#1 Is to have a MFM threesome.I’ve taken part in a few different FMF threesomes, all of which were years & years ago, but all incredibly fun & pleasurable. I’ve even done the FFF style threesome, I just haven’t had the opportunity to participate in the MFM version of a threesome.

X Loves the idea, It’s his #1 turn on, I’m just not sure if he could cope with the jealousy that could possibly brew in the aftermath. (I don’t know If I want anything to do with him after the bullshit tantrum he threw on the weekend that ended up in a fistfight, let alone wanting to fuck him again though.) But if ever I do change my opinion of him, I’ve found the 2^nd M for the mix… or at least I think I have, not 100% sure he was serious. It’s hard to know whether or not to believe a man when he’s thinking with his dick rather than his brain – but if & when I do organise it, you will be the first to know.

I also want to experience double penetration, it’s my true number one not yet experienced fantasy, but as it requires a MFM threesome for it to eventuate it gets thrown in with MFM at #1.

#2 It’s a little Vanilla, but I want to have sex in water. I’m a Pisces and have always been at one with water, I just haven’t gotten around to having sex in the water yet. I’ve done it on beaches (North Cronulla – like in Puberty Blues) and Even the Sandhills (where Mad Max was filmed) I Just never made it to the water. I’ve heard all the awful stories of getting sand where you don’t want it, but am happy to settle for still water like a swimming pool, or a lake.

#3 Despite having slept with more than a few females I’ve never had the experience of using a double ended dildo, allowing both female partners to be penetrated by the other simultaneously. I love Pussy and could spend a year, licking, tasting, eating pussy, touching it, playing with it… – I Love all things pussy! Grinding against each other, clit to clit, scissors style feels great, Id love to feel that mixed with the sensation of penetration. I’m sure it has to be the ultimate feeling when it comes to girl on girl fucking – maybe someone slightly more experience can tell me if I’m wasting my lesbian dreams on an unsatisfying act or not.

#4 Is to give someone their un-realised fantasy. A little like a sexual fantasy Genie. Everyone has fantasies, most of us have at least one un-conventional one, one that our partner or partners have no interest in. Before I die I’d like to help make someone’s unrealised fantasy a reality. I imagine someone who’s had this deep seeded longing for years and years, one that has always been denied. For some reason when I think of this one I envision a married man despite the fact I’ve sworn never ever to fuck with another man whose married ((engaged or somehow otherwise invested in a long term relationship, especially if children are involved)). Guys a bit like the UnWanted Husband, one who’s been used, maybe abused and just ignored sexually, those who if they are married the ‘cheating’ damage has already been well and truly done – I’d like to give at least one person their deepest, dirtiest denied desire. Just as long as my actions couldn’t lead to breaking up a family. I think I could even get some kind of BDSM kink on for this one despite my general dislike of such, If it got the person in question off I’d be glad to do pretty much whatever – just no two girls one cup shit!

#5 Another is to get paid for sex, or rather have sex for money as I think the two can differ at times. As a teenager I always wanted to be a prostitute, I guess it was some kind of romantic notion caused by pretty woman((I also wanted to be a nun after watching ‘Brides of Christ’ and longed to marry Marky Mark – long before he dumped the funky bunch and became a hot movie star.. I have strange notions at times!)) and although I was propositioned once or twice, I never slept with anyone or performed any sexual act explicitly for money. But I pretty much gave it away for free to any guy who gave it a try. The reason I didn’t take the offering of $$$ when propositioned was because the guys made me want to puke,I really disliked the idea of not being able to choose who I fucked so I never became a professional teenage whore. I did accept $100 off of X for a blow job, but don’t think he really counts. But with this $105k debt looming over me, I may get to cross number 5 off my list sooner than I had expected

#6 I’d like to Be a Cam Girl. I would probably prefer to try being a cam girl before I turned to out & out prostitution. I’ve been a phone sex operator before and think that becoming a cam girl is the natural next step from there. I’ve had sex whilst people watched via web cam, so don’t think it would be a big deal to me once I got my head in the right place. My personal self-esteem and body Image both suck, something I’m working hard to improve via things such as writing this blog and participating in things like The Scavenger Hunt & Wanton Wednesdays, being a Cam girl would be a HUGE step towards my goal of loving myself & my body. If & when I do decide to go in that direction – again I’ll be sure to let you know.

#7 I want to either make another woman squirt, or teach a guy how to make me do it, so he can go on to teach another woman It has to be more fun with a partner than it is on my own and it could be teamed up with my #12 and kill two birds with one stone.

#8 Have someone eat or lick gooey food stuffs off of my skin &/or do the same to someone else. I know it isn’t really out there, but again I’ve never tried it. Same with Sex on the Kitchen bench. I’ve wanted to have Kitchen Bench sex since I was way to young to be thinking about it. The closest I ever came was with my childhood sweetheart, but for some reason we never actually had sex despite the fact neither of us were virgins…We still don’t know why we never fucked! I do have this one very particular fantasy regarding -B & my Kitchen bench, but seriously doubt that will ever eventuate.

#9 Sell my Underwear Online. I hate the word ‘panties’ or any derivative there of, but after being with someone with such a fetish It truly rubbed off on me, anyone who’s seen my tumblr feed at sexviaviolet.tumblr.com can attest to this. Considering I’m down to my last $50 this is quite likely to eventuate… if anyone wants them

#10 Have anonymous, or close to anonymous sex with someone, by that I mean no blind date style anonymous sex – But within hours of first meeting someone, I’d just like one more good, no real names, one night stand before I die…please

#11 To get really drunk and fuck like I have no Inhibitions preferably with someone other than X or -B.

Although I don’t really have any inhibitions when I’m with X, there’s so many things he’s picky about that make being truly free sexually impossible, i.e.: having to have a shower before we have sex, even if I’ve just showered, and even then he has a huge issue with going down on me, I forget the last time he did. No doggy style sex because he can’t stand the sight off my ass hole – Because My ass hole is one of those darkly pigmented ones he deems it too dirty to look at… But he’s happy to stick his dick in that ass and couldn’t care less if he pulled it out covered in shit (I know this because I asked him about it on the weekend.

Writing this makes me realise just how much he has stifled the true me.

And although I said it has to be someone other than -B, I’d love to be that way with him, he kinda deserves it after all the shit he’s put up with from me.

#12 Very very unrealistic, but I’d love to participate in some form of ‘glory hole’ style kinkiness, but I’d much prefer to be bent over and fucked than be on my knee’s giving bj’s..but I did say it was unrealistic, possibly impossible, but fuck it, it’s my list.

#13 It’s my dirtiest darkest item on my list… To live out my own one truly ruley dirty fantasy, or dirty sexual act rather. I’ve always wanted to pee in a guys mouth – don’t know quite why, maybe because I hate X and the idea of being able to be dominant and kind of abusive to him turns me on. That’s my usual go to fantasy when I need that extra push in order to cum. I imagine standing up whilst he’s on his knees, my hand tightly mingled in his hair whilst he goes down on me and I get to kind of forcibly fuck his face. Eventually pulling his head away from my pussy and peeing all over him. I’d equally like to squirt in a guys mouth, so either or, not too fussed, but I’d like to do one of those before I die. I’ve played all kinds of ‘Water Sports’ with him, both giving and receiving…Just never in his mouth ((Stupid picky bastard – sorry I’ve really got my hate on for him today))

#14 Finally…because I forgot about it two more recent sex toy items, I want to try the club vibe from ohmibod out during a Mosh Pit and fuck someone with the feel doe or similar non harness style strap on cock (is it still a strap on cock if it doesn’t actually ‘strap on’?) be it guy or girl I’d really like to try that thing out. I wonder if it feels as good as it looks, or if it is as hard to use as I’ve read. I’ve got plenty of other sex toy hopes & dreams, but there’s so many they require their own bucket List. I may even write that list today, I’m very bored and incredibly lazy today.

#15 And to finish… the most ridiculous of all. I’ve always wanted to have sex in a mosh pit, no matter how ridiculous, impossible & painful it could possibly be. Music turns me on, the higher the volume the wetter I get. I’ve had backstage sex, but never crowd side. I’m happy to die without fulfilling #15, but it’s a fantasy & deserves to be here no matter how impossible it would be in practice.

But wait I forgot one… #16 I’ve always wanted to fuck using a great sex swing. Even at my thinnest most anorexic self I wasn’t exactly light as a feather, I’d love a great sex swing so I could get into all kinds of weird and wonderful positions. A regular swing was plenty fun, I imagine a sex swing would be infinitely better, I even have the perfect basement for it – & trust me In Australia Basements are incredibly rare.. It’s really just a big area attached to the side of the garage- but the big Metal beams that are all painted a shiny deep red make it feel perfect for a sexual dungeon.

So what about you?

Do you have a Sexual Bucket List? Any Sexual experiences you want to have before you die? Any act you wish to do before you leave this life?

If you do, publish your List and leave a comment with the link to it . It doesn’t have to be 16 things, or even 12, It can be as many as you like… It’s your list. If you do & you link it back to here I’ll get off my lazy ass and make a cute little sexual bucket list button for you to use (I’m just being very very Lazy today)

The Voyeur in me would love to know what’s on your list.

Violet xx

Scavenger Hunt – Truck & Petrol Pump

I Flashed My Boobs

I mentioned Sapio Slut’s Scavenger hunt in my last Weekend Reading post and ever since I first discovered it I’ve really wanted to take part. I don’t have the body to flaunt like Sapio Slut Does, nor do I have the Sexy Self Esteem Of Curvaceous Dee, but I still managed to flash my boobs in public places… Twice!

First time was In front of X’s Truck Last Sunday Night – I live no where near a train line & even if I did I’d never get on one. I’ve been phobic of trains since my brother got killed by one when I was 8 – So Road Train Will Just have to do.

The Truck

And I guess I can’t put it off much longer…

Then On Tuesday Night I went And met him out at the truck Stop on the highway and was in the position to flash my boobs at the Petrol Pump.I wasn’t scared to ‘flash’ at the world, there were only a few truck drivers around, and a camera that fed into the service station, but I didn’t care because I didn’t need to go in there. Once he had finished filling up we were moving to the other end of the truck stop to fuck.

Then I offered to climb up and clean his windows for him, hoping to get the perfect shot of my ass for my Wanton Wednesday Post. Once I climbed up the side of the open Bonnet He passed me the squidgey Window washing thing and I started washing the drivers side of the windscreen whilst telling him to get the right photo (I had my skirt hiked up so my ass was half on show.

“You have to..Ughhhh” he says and puts the camera down, climbs up shaking his head at me & pulls the windscreen wiper away from the windscreen.

I finished and half climbed down, half fell down and he went to put the bonnet back up.

“Crunch” & I get the ‘what the fuck have you done now Violet’ look.

He Put the Friggen Windscreen Wiper down, he should’ve put it back. It got snapped and I got sent in to buy electrical tape from the servo. Inside were five truckers all talking to the guy behind the counter, all of whom were standing around the monitor that caught me flashing my boobs. I could’ve died. I’m a whore on the inside. but so shy on the outside!

Anyways here’s the pic from the petrol pump.

I think that I should now qualify for some scavenger hunt award love…even if I didn’t get it all off – It’s Winter here in Australia you know.

So Now that I’ve struck up the courage to both take the photos AND publish them – How about you join in the Scavenger hunt fun too?

Violetxx

News Screws & Reviews

All the Things going on Behind the Scenes In my World

[originally posted June 27th 2010]

[sorry about the post title, but I have a thing for stupid rhymes]

This weekend started off pretty boring and mundane. But by Saturday night I was with FWB, holed up in a great Hotel room screwing his brains out – I’m working on a post about that.

Sunday sucked, Although the goodbye kiss was sweet. I’m considering whether or not to ask FWB exactly what it is he wants from me??? I’ve been thinking that having friends with benefits is almost like having your own personal free prostitute (I do love the idea of being a professional whore, but doubt my exploits will get me boosted up out of the amateur leagues of Whore-dom!) and wonder what kind of professional service he’d like the most. The quick suck and fuck? Or a decent GFE (Girl Friend Experience)? Even something in between. I just have to work out how to ask him. Or Maybe Just take out an ad On Craigslist for a 3r

I know that X would certainly choose the suck & fuck option, but never quite know which direction FWB will go when given more than one choice. However after a few little things the other night I think he’d lean towards the GFE side of things. I’ll to get that post finished before the weekend. Along with the 55 million others that are still in draft form.

In Other Breaking News In the World Of Violet…..

I’m Now Officially a Sex Toy Reviewer

I’m pretty sure I can say that considering I got my first Package of Sex Toys to Review delivered to my door this evening -> All thanks to the lovely Nicole from AdultSexToys.com

Whoo Hooo!

I finally got my Hands on the OhMiBod I’ve been physically craving… And I’ve lost the usb cord for the iPod! Such a Violet Thing to do.

My Celebrity Crush has a Sex Video

But as I decided to take the moral high ground (after earlier taking the much lower path) I’ve removed everything regarding said celebrity Crush’s sex video. And seriously apologise for referring to it, let alone originally publishing Images from it!

And well…..that’s it

Goodbye B

I just lost the B from my FWB.

[originally Posted June4th 2010]

I’m happy for him, but am feeling seriously bummed and can’t work out why. Or rather I can’t rationalise the reason I’m feeling bummed. Perhaps because I know I can’t replace him. Because even after…like 6 months I was still sexually shy with him.

After over coming my whore #FAIL (which I was spurred to do after Wonder Whore weighed in on the situation) I ended up spending a pretty decent night with my FWB last week I’ve been dying to write about it, However I simply couldn’t bring myself to write about it without his permission. I’ve got pretty strong morals and try to have clear boundaries (at least with him I have boundaries, I won’t call him unless I’ve texted him first etc) and writing about having sex with him … Well I wouldn’t want to violate his privacy, even though he’s obviously anonymous, I’d still be scared he would see it and feel violated. Even if he never saw it I just couldn’t. I may have mentioned him, but never any of the juicy details….

So I finally send him a text message to ask if he’s be open to the idea of me writing about having sex with him. Takes him a while to respond, which is fair enough, It’s kind of a hard question to ask.

Turns out he’s open to me writing about having sex with him, but I won’t be having sex with him anymore… He went and got himself a girlfriend! I’m really happy for him, yet I’m bummed. But Can’t figure out why I’m bummed, or at least rationalise Why I feel bummed.

I believe in open relationships, Even if we were more than friends I wouldn’t have had an issue with him having sex with others. I’m not jealous. But I’m bummed… Why The Fuck am I so bummed When I’m so happy for him?

He’s a great guy, I don’t have the ability to be in a real relationship with anyone, so why do I feel so fucking down?

I guess I’m not as great as I thought I was, in the sense of detaching my heart from sex. Yet I didn’t want to pursue a relationship with him, I simply wanted to fuck him senseless. Perhaps it’s because he ended it rather than me? Am I really that shallow? Or is it because I regret holding back and not fully exploring the things I wanted to. I really, really wanted to feel him blow down my throat and anal… I wanted to have anal with him. (If I could have anal with him I could have anal with anyone.)

I seriously do #FAIL when it comes to being a whore. I will get around to writing about that night, along with the many others, but I just can’t do it right now. I can’t write about having great sex with him whilst I’m still grieving for that sex.

Perhaps I’m so bummed because in the past when mates have met new girlfriends, the new girlfriends get jealous and are threatened by their boyfriends having female friends. If that happened I think I really would be crushed.

Anyway I’m going to go hide under my doonah watch the Amazing Race and get the fuck over it.

I wish they had craigslist for the area I live in, I need a new B!

Violet xx

I Did It Again

My Squirting Diaries

Yet another of my adventure in Female Ejaculation.

Last Week I had a marathon masturbation session. It was a rather intense experience, almost like an out of body Experience (OBE) – a bit like astral travel, yet different all at the same time. I squirted again today, but this time there was no Porn, OMG I hear people gasping lol. There was also an entirely different sex toy involved than in my previous squirting experience, this one also involved a double whammy g spot & clitoral Orgasm.

I had been texting -B after telling him of my original squirting experience – I realise He’s now a taken man, but I just can’t help myself. X had been very negative about it when I told him, outraged even. He called me ‘Perverted’, and kept questioning me in what I can only describe as an insulting way, saying things like “What? You were Fucking Yourself for 2 hours?”, “who Fucks themselves for two hours?” “where was Son while your busy fucking yourself?” “Why would you keep fucking your cunt with a glass dildo for 2 hours?”, along with comments like “whatever! I don’t get it” &  “It’s just wrong” said in a very stern snipey through away kind of tone. so I guess I told -B because I needed some kind of positive response.

I guess after those remarks It’s no surprise that the ‘truck stop Hooker’ style sex that was had on Saturday sucked and I never even got close to cumming. also when I made a sexual request I was told that there’s more to life than sex you know.

I let -B read the squirting Post – He was flattered that I had written about how I thought he had the perfect fingers to get a girl to squirt. He also asked me to be careful not to let X hurt me now I’m fucking him full time – well once a week. I told him X couldn’t hurt me – but fuck it his remarks regarding the squirting hurt so much I’m crying just writing them… This was mean to be a hot sexual Post, but it’s turned out Sappy & put me in a fucked up head space. Possibly not helped by the fact that I’ve had 2 hrs sleep in the past 48hrs.

I swear it is -B that causes all this squirting business, he relaxes me and (in-directly) reminds me of what fun I could’ve had with him If I had simply just let go, (I have huge regrets regarding him, but only due to my own inactions) Somehow he has an effect on me that does make me completely let go now. Incredibly weird as previously I acted like a prissy fucking prude, rather than embracing my true self, that inner whore & truly enjoyed the sexual brilliance that he is.

Anyway, enough lamenting on crap i can’t change.

I got my new 6″ bullet Breeze – a nice long thick bullet with great power, and started with my clit. This thing is an oversized bullet & really packs a punch. I am still yet to do further investigations into squirting, but for me it’s about relaxation, sexually stimulating my mind & working the Kegels.

The relaxation part came about quite quickly, and soon I was giving in and handing my body over to its primal urges. My legs widen, opening my pussy as wide as possible and my hips start rocking, & my pelvis starts to grind my clit against the toy. I started out dry, but was soaked before I knew it. With every thrust against the bullet I’d tighten my pc muscles in quick succession, then pause before repeating it over a few times. I experiences a number of small quivering orgasms, with each one, as I tightened & released my pc muscles I’d  do tiny demi squirts. My Underwear was getting soaked!

I feel so open, barren & void, My clit was singing, but my pussy was yearning to feel that void being stuffed full. I was so intensely wet, The bullet slid inside me with ease. It hit right on my G spot and I allowed the vibrations to work a little on it whilst my finger found my clit & I kept on with the intermittent kegels.

I could feel the small gushes of fluid as they ran along the inside of my pussy lips, down onto my thigh, It was as though a tap had been switched on. I Imagined how much some guy would love & appreciate my new ‘skill’ and the orgasm began to build. My G spot was starting to throb, my clit just grinding against my hand, whilst my fingers put more pressure on the bullet. That hand was coated in my juices as they really had begun to flow, my other hand was busy twisting my nipple… and I could feel the orgasm begin to roll in like a thunderstorm in the afternoon of a really hot summer’s day.

Every fibre of me began to tense up, but in a rhythmic way, each pubic push, brought on another, stronger wave of pleasure. I was to the point where I knew I was going to cum, and I didn’t want to waste it, nor let it’s intensity drop. So I went at it hard.

It felt like my clit was hit by a lightning bolt, which then flowed through the rest of my body, then My G spot Joined in. More lightening and thunderclaps as the orgasms from both inside and outside ravaged me as they collided. It was pure ecstasy. I pulled the bullet out to allow my pussy to convulse away to it’s hearts content and put the vibrations back on my clit, Just as my double orgasm hit it’s crescendo.

The Squirting gush truly exploded from me, sending my entire body into spasm. It was even better this second time. Possibly the most Intense orgasm I’ve ever had, and from dry start to soaking wet finish took less than 15 minutes!!

I’m going to do some fact finding research so I can provide you with more information regarding what’s happening when a Woman ejaculates, or squirts as I would love to teach you all to do it. It is sublime and ecstatic, almost tantric even. Once I do some reading I think I’ll be able to explain it a little better. I just wish I could’ve discovered this a month ago. Im sure -B would’ve loved it… although Im sure he’s seen it all before!

I’m also Proud of myself for finally writing a true post, one with simply words, without links or other superfluous crap.

All I need to do now is repeat this experience as often as possible & find me a replacement for -B, one who’s into squirting and possibly water sports, Might also see how much squirted in Panties go for. This could supplement my earnings in a great & very fun way!!

Violetxx

I Taught Myself A New Trick

How I Discovered I can Squirt!!

There’s been a lot going on, I’ve got the flu and I’m procrastinating on 2 separate, yet almost finished reviews. I’m home alone Monday’s until late on Tuesday, so figured I’d just get myself off. Certainly can’t hurt to use the toys again before I complete the reviews, Right? I certainly need a little relaxation and ‘me’ time.

I’m totally enamoured with assbear.com‘s hand picked, full length (this one’s just shy of half an hour), Free Porn Tube Clips and began watching this clip below;

Source link:http://www.assbear.com/free/porn/teen-gone-wild

To start with I didn’t have the sound on & all of a sudden Im like WTF? Why does she keep jumping off of him? (yes I admit I’m often naive – but mostly just dumb) I was also enamoured with her larger than average clit – or at least much larger than mine.

Then I get a Phone Call, a Text Message, then a few tweets later and my precious Candy (My nickname for my new Layaspot) is forgotten, the porn has been abandoned and I’m out the door to do a bunch of chores. Finally get home.

Finally time to resume Masturbating. OOps I really did forget my ‘Candy’ Layaspot and hadn’t turned her off. Dead Batteries:( Oh Well! So I go grab my new Don Wands Curved Purple Swirl Dildo. Glass is so great, never need dumb assed batteries.

Now I can start paying some attention to the Porn I was watching earlier. . . finally the penny dropped. She’s Jumping off of him cause she’s Squirting!!

I’ve read a few things on squirting,I know what it is, I understand the principles of how it works and the theory of how to ‘teach’ yourself how to do it (actually If I remember correctly most of the articles were about telling men how to get women to squirt – Always thought -B’s fingers would be perfect for it. but as always I digress.)

The curved swirl wand seemed to be the perfect tool to hit that spot, that G-Spot hitting curve and the large head. I also found two spare batteries Under my laptop and fired my Layaspot back up.

I relaxed, I explored myself, I had fun. I really really wanted to cum, but it just wasn’t happening. I’d probably watched that same clip twice by this time; When with the wand inside me pressed against that right spot, the layaspot rested against it sending vibrations through the glass, my finger rubbing my clit and my mind in very naughty dirty places…I felt a gush. a tiny gush, but still a gush. Yet I didn’t believe it. I hadn’t cum, there’s no way that could be even a tiny squirt.

So I kept going, wishing I had a few extra hands, I truly ‘Let go’ of everything. When people say that getting of and having mind blowing Orgasms is in the mind for women – I tend to agree. An earlier, Indirect conversation caused me to let go of everything. I was so into it I didn’t have a single care in the world. I was 100% relaxed and didn’t give a shit about anyone or anything – It was an empowering place to be mentally.

Shortly after I felt another small gush like sensation, then another, and yet another. each slightly bigger than the one before, yet remaining quite small. I wasn’t turning back now. At that moment I probably would’ve fucked anyone that wanted me. I was sot turned on physically that It is beyond compare,whilst my mind was on a wholly separate plane, I didn’t even realise That 2 hours had passed. It felt euphoric, almost like an opiate haze – but that ,may be the cough syrup talking!

I still couldn’t quite believe I was doing it. I just thought I was extra wet and the ‘gush’ sensation was just my juices welling up and then running free… Then I seriously squirted. No fucking Denying it Now. My Undies were soaked beyond saturation, as was my skirt and the doonah I was lying on. All that pent up sexual energy literally burst forth from me.

And before some smart ass pipes up and says, “you just pee’d your pants” shut the fuck up. It wasn’t pee. It’s clear & actually kinda reminded me of amniotic fluid lol.

I’ll do some research and seek out the articles I had read and do a more descriptive post – But I’m just so…. well speechless. But I had to share.

So above mentioned Porn + A Curved Purple Swirl Glass Wand + layaspot + relaxing & finally letting go = Learning to squirt. Well for me at least. I’d love to hear about your experiences, or posts you’ve read about learning to squirt.

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I’m going to catch some well deserved sleep!

Violet xx

P.S Since this Post I did It again, read about it – My Double Orgasm Squirting Post