WTMFI Wednesdays #23 Sex & Music

⚤Sex & Music ♫

Sex & Music are possibly my two Favourite Things in Life. When they combine – It’s bliss.

This Weeks Questions

1. How often do you listen to music during sex? Do you wish you did it more often?
2. What are 5 songs that you love to have sex to? Why?
3. Have you ever given or received a lap dance from a professional? What about from a non-professional? Which did you prefer or which do you think you would prefer?
4. Do you find when you listen to music while you have sex, that sex generally tends to follow the rhythm of the music? Do you use that advantageously?
5. Does having music on make you feel more sexy?

BONUS QUESTION:
Do you think that you could ever strip professionally?

My Answers

1. How often do you listen to music during sex? Do you wish you did it more often?

Barely ever, Life is so much better when it has a sound track. Same thing goes for my sex life. Sadly I’ve wasted so much time fucking someone who couldn’t give a shit what I like, so no music whilst fucking. I wish music was playing constantly – and as it’s never playing when I’m having sex I sure as hell wish it was playing more often.. even just on the odd occasion would be nice!

2. What are 5 songs that you love to have sex to? Why?

Who doesn’t want to have sex to Closer by Nine Inch Nails?

I’ve also always felt Israel’s Son by Silverchair has that perfect hip rocking girl on top style bass line – it’s hard to just choose 5!!

All My Life by the Foo Fighters – just cause it shows you just how dirty his mind is (you tube won’t let me embed the original – bastards!)

East Jesus No Where by Green Day- that opening riff – & the drum line

And I have to round out my top 5 with the song that makes me want to fuck the most – ‘No one Knows‘ by Queens of the Stone Age – featuring none other than Dave Grohl on drums (surely you get the theme running through this list

And ‘If loving you is wrong’ by faithless – well who doesn’t want to either get naked or fuck after listening to that. There’s Probably a hundred more I could list… I think its the bass line that gets me!

3. Have you ever given or received a lap dance from a professional? What about from a non-professional? Which did you prefer or which do you think you would prefer?

No , never even been to a strip club let alone had a lap dance & never had an amateur one either. I’ve seen a lot of strippers are parties and such giving lap dances & more, but even that was way too long ago.

4. Do you find when you listen to music while you have sex, that sex generally tends to follow the rhythm of the music? Do you use that advantageously?

Yes, yes & more YES. I suck at keeping a good rhythm going over an extended period of time, so music is definitely a plus if I’m in control of such things. Just one of the many reasons I’ve always wanted to fuck a musician

5. Does having music on make you feel more sexy?

Music – full stop turns me on as a whole, so hell yeah – Music definitely makes me feel sexier than silence.

BONUS QUESTION:
Do you think that you could ever strip professionally?

Absolutely not, Not with this body, If I had my pre baby body – I possibly would, but there’s no way in hell I would now

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WTMFI Wednesday #22 All About Anal

Anal Explorations

“That’s Tight”

This Week’s Questions

1. What are your thoughts on anal sex? Have you ever had it?
2. Do you enjoy watching porn with anal sex?
3. If you’ve had anal sex, what was your first time like? If you haven’t had anal sex and want to, what do you hope for your anal sex experience?
4. Do you own any sex toys for anal penetration? If not, do you want to?
5. Do you always use condoms or do you sometimes allow bareback?

BONUS QUESTION:
What are your thoughts on society’s negative views of anal sex?

1.What are your thoughts on anal sex? Have you ever had it?

I’m pretty open So my thoughts on Anal… Well I’m certainly open to it, but it’s certainly something that it up to the individual. I’d written it off for years & years before I decided to give it another go.

I’ve only ever had Anal with One partner, but there was over a decade between the first period of time I when  was having Anal with him and the second time we tried, and since then I’ve lost count of the number of times we’ve done it. But the first time round it was rather painful to start with, probably because I was young, naive and doubt there was any lube involved. Second time round it’s all been intensely pleasurable because I knew exactly what I was doing & understood how it all worked thanks to Alexa and her blog the realprincessdiaries.com.

Education & understanding how my body works as well as what’s going on when you have Anal made it so much easier. I look back on my initial foray into anal & think ‘how naive’ Would you go about giving birth without understanding the physical process? Anal’s so much easier & therefore fun if you know whats going on.

For more on the what, Where And How to’s of Anal check Out these three great Posts from the Aforementioned Alexa. Start out With Preparing for your first Anal; If I had of read this all those years ago before I even tried having Anal sex I doubt there would’ve been any pain, discomfort or worry of any kind. Wether you are male or female I recommend you read it, even if it is only so that you have a better understanding of how it all works. Guys if you like the idea  of having Anal sex with a woman I suggest you bookmark it, It’s helped at least one of my mates to venture into previously uncharted territory.

Enema’s and More on Anal Sex is like the secondary level of your Anal education from Alexa

Even now, re-reading it after turning into a total butt slut, there’s much to learn on the subject and knowledge is power. What better power to have than sexual power, so even if you’ve been fucking your ass off for years you still just might learn something.These two are the Main Anal articles on her site, but there are plenty more Anal Sex Posts on her blog - If you want to try out Anal read as much as you can both on her site and others.

2.Do you enjoy watching porn with anal sex?

Yeah, I honestly do. But I enjoy anal immensely and I watch a lot of Double Penetration Porn, I guess because it’s number 1 on my Sexual Bucket List.

But it’s Also Anal Porn that bothers me the most. It is simply not safe to do ATM or Ass To Mouth, I hate that it makes it seem in anyway acceptable and that it gives some the impression that they can request to stick their dick in your mouth after it’s come out of your ass. Same goes with Vaginal sex after Anal. There’s all kinds of bacteria up your ass, stuff you really don’t want in your Vag, I can only imagine the kinds of infections that could lead to. If you want to do Anal then stick it in another hole, wrap that dick in a condom for fuck’s sake.

3. If you’ve had anal sex, what was your first time like? If you haven’t had anal sex and want to, what do you hope for your anal sex experience?

The very, very first time I had Anal was about 15 years ago when I was 16. I must admit it was painful and only slightly pleasurable. I was doing it because he wanted to. The thought of needing, let alone using lube never crossed my mind, If we had used lube I doubt it would’ve been painful. If I knew than what I know know in regards to Anal sex I’m sure it would’ve been a hit & there wouldn’t have been a decade & a half between Anal Adventures.

I was scared to try it after my son was born, sadly haemorrhoids often develop during pregnancy as well as during the pushing part of the birthing experience. I got off pretty lightly in that department, but still it was an issue in my mind (I’ve found my mind is sometimes my worst enemy when it comes to sexual pleasure)

I also suffer from Endometriosis, a condition where the lining of the uterus (the Endometrium) decides to take up residence in places it really shouldn’t. My case is on the extreme end with it gluing all my pelvic organs together and deciding to migrate to both my lungs and the inside of my rectum and bowel. Don’t ask me how the heck it gets in such places, I just know it’s there and it causes me all sorts of issues. I was really worried about tearing things that might be stuck together, but some logical thought made me realise if something can come out without tearing anything, surely something could go back in.

So with Education, Information, Awareness of my own body & the all important lube, second time round Anal has been nothing but an absolute joy.

4. Do you own any sex toys for anal penetration? If not, do you want to?

I do, I have a stunning crystal Delights Plug I scored out of my sister, and also really enjoy my Glass Wand for Anal Play. When it comes to Anal Play with sex toys the toy MUST have some sort of flared base to ensure that it doesn’t slip inside – which would lead you to an embarrassing trip to the hospital to have it removed. Similar warning regarding Large toys and Anal Play. Unlike the Vagina the Rectum Doesn’t really stretch. You can gradually stretch what feels comfortable being inserted, but it isn’t going to stretch in length. Respect that fact, and the fact that pain means something is not right and you shouldn’t have any problems.

5. Do you always use condoms or do you sometimes allow bareback?

In no way do I recommend or condone having un-safe sex, especially un-safe Anal sex as there is a higher risk of contracting an STD such as HIV via Anal sex than Vaginal Sex. However most often My Anal Adventures have all been bareback – but also with the same monogamous partner I was with for 15 years. If ever I were to have Anal, or any form of penetrative sex with someone else there would most certainly be a condom involved.

Second time round we were using condoms for Anal until I was comfortable with it (they seemed to cause less friction & discomfort on entry), but that soon ended. It’s also important to use condoms with sex toys used for Anal Play unless they are able to be fully disinfected and sterilised like glass.

Bonus Question:

What are your thoughts on society’s negative views of anal sex?

I don’t really give it much consideration to be truly honest.But maybe the fact that the vast majority see it as being so taboo that makes it even more alluring and of course fun.

If you Want more Info On Anal Other Articles that may be of interest or assistance include:

New To Anal Sex - on the Frisky Blog – This article on Anal includes important information regarding the two different sphincter muscles and how they work. Kind of important to Understand so you don’t go hurting yourself by trying to go to fast, or trying to insert anything too big.

Anal sex from the library @ Rotten.com

And as much as it pains me to link to this site, they do have a rather good guide to Anal Sex Toys and Anal Play from the site that has become known for being the sex shop you can’t trust

Unless you are thinking about some full on Anal play I wouldn’t recommend you read this Article, but if you are looking to push your Anal Boundaries, this post could save you from serious damage & in extreme cases death. Sometimes Anal Play can go too far

News Screws & Reviews

All the Things going on Behind the Scenes In my World

[originally posted June 27th 2010]

[sorry about the post title, but I have a thing for stupid rhymes]

This weekend started off pretty boring and mundane. But by Saturday night I was with FWB, holed up in a great Hotel room screwing his brains out – I’m working on a post about that.

Sunday sucked, Although the goodbye kiss was sweet. I’m considering whether or not to ask FWB exactly what it is he wants from me??? I’ve been thinking that having friends with benefits is almost like having your own personal free prostitute (I do love the idea of being a professional whore, but doubt my exploits will get me boosted up out of the amateur leagues of Whore-dom!) and wonder what kind of professional service he’d like the most. The quick suck and fuck? Or a decent GFE (Girl Friend Experience)? Even something in between. I just have to work out how to ask him. Or Maybe Just take out an ad On Craigslist for a 3r

I know that X would certainly choose the suck & fuck option, but never quite know which direction FWB will go when given more than one choice. However after a few little things the other night I think he’d lean towards the GFE side of things. I’ll to get that post finished before the weekend. Along with the 55 million others that are still in draft form.

In Other Breaking News In the World Of Violet…..

I’m Now Officially a Sex Toy Reviewer

I’m pretty sure I can say that considering I got my first Package of Sex Toys to Review delivered to my door this evening -> All thanks to the lovely Nicole from AdultSexToys.com

Whoo Hooo!

I finally got my Hands on the OhMiBod I’ve been physically craving… And I’ve lost the usb cord for the iPod! Such a Violet Thing to do.

My Celebrity Crush has a Sex Video

But as I decided to take the moral high ground (after earlier taking the much lower path) I’ve removed everything regarding said celebrity Crush’s sex video. And seriously apologise for referring to it, let alone originally publishing Images from it!

And well…..that’s it

Goodbye B

I just lost the B from my FWB.

[originally Posted June4th 2010]

I’m happy for him, but am feeling seriously bummed and can’t work out why. Or rather I can’t rationalise the reason I’m feeling bummed. Perhaps because I know I can’t replace him. Because even after…like 6 months I was still sexually shy with him.

After over coming my whore #FAIL (which I was spurred to do after Wonder Whore weighed in on the situation) I ended up spending a pretty decent night with my FWB last week I’ve been dying to write about it, However I simply couldn’t bring myself to write about it without his permission. I’ve got pretty strong morals and try to have clear boundaries (at least with him I have boundaries, I won’t call him unless I’ve texted him first etc) and writing about having sex with him … Well I wouldn’t want to violate his privacy, even though he’s obviously anonymous, I’d still be scared he would see it and feel violated. Even if he never saw it I just couldn’t. I may have mentioned him, but never any of the juicy details….

So I finally send him a text message to ask if he’s be open to the idea of me writing about having sex with him. Takes him a while to respond, which is fair enough, It’s kind of a hard question to ask.

Turns out he’s open to me writing about having sex with him, but I won’t be having sex with him anymore… He went and got himself a girlfriend! I’m really happy for him, yet I’m bummed. But Can’t figure out why I’m bummed, or at least rationalise Why I feel bummed.

I believe in open relationships, Even if we were more than friends I wouldn’t have had an issue with him having sex with others. I’m not jealous. But I’m bummed… Why The Fuck am I so bummed When I’m so happy for him?

He’s a great guy, I don’t have the ability to be in a real relationship with anyone, so why do I feel so fucking down?

I guess I’m not as great as I thought I was, in the sense of detaching my heart from sex. Yet I didn’t want to pursue a relationship with him, I simply wanted to fuck him senseless. Perhaps it’s because he ended it rather than me? Am I really that shallow? Or is it because I regret holding back and not fully exploring the things I wanted to. I really, really wanted to feel him blow down my throat and anal… I wanted to have anal with him. (If I could have anal with him I could have anal with anyone.)

I seriously do #FAIL when it comes to being a whore. I will get around to writing about that night, along with the many others, but I just can’t do it right now. I can’t write about having great sex with him whilst I’m still grieving for that sex.

Perhaps I’m so bummed because in the past when mates have met new girlfriends, the new girlfriends get jealous and are threatened by their boyfriends having female friends. If that happened I think I really would be crushed.

Anyway I’m going to go hide under my doonah watch the Amazing Race and get the fuck over it.

I wish they had craigslist for the area I live in, I need a new B!

Violet xx

Get Me Off This Island Of Insanity

Australia Is No Longer Free

I’ve always lived on an Island, It’s a beautiful place to be, or at least it was an Island Paradise.

Where you can be young and eternally free, where you don’t need to worry about having your personal freedoms taken away & you are free to celebrate your sexuality with great pride. At least that What I once thought, Now I’m Ashamed to be Australian.

Wake Up Australia we are no longer free, I Suggest replacing our Existing National Anthem to something along these lines:

“Australians all let us regret
That we are no longer free
Porn’s been banned, Our net’s being scanned
It’s a controversy
As We ban those with lesser tits
Or women who squirt so rare

At This Stage, Scream Out In Rage
This isn’t bloody Fair

In Rage Filled Strains We now shall sing
This isn’t bloody fair

For those who wish to visit us & want to have a toss
We’ll take porn from your hands
Whilst raiding our own sex stores
Now Known for all of our bans
As well as all the Porn We’ve seized
We now have plans to share
Id & net history combine
This isn’t Fucking Fair

In rage filled strains we all should scream
Australia Isn’t Fair”

Australia Now Search and seize Pornography from those who are entering the Country Cuntry, rifling through your baggage, mobile phones, laptops and more as you pass through Customs.

The have Also Started Raiding Australian Sex Stores Amongst Many Other Equally Ridiculous Things, As Reported by The Australian Sex Party. (it’s a long list of Shame!)

Our Government Wishes to Impose a ‘net filter‘ on all Australian Internet Service Providers to Protect us from ‘un desirable’ Content. Another Proposal is to have ISP’s  not only store a copy of our internet browsing history, but to link such histories to personally identifiable Information such as Passport numbers and even Medical Records.

A Queensland Couple were charged after using an abortive drug similar to RU-486 (Sources: Direct Action| The Brisbane Times).

And Most disgusting of all – Australian Doctors Considering Performing ‘Surgical Cuts’ Into young female babies & children in attempt to cut back on back yard female genital mutilation.

Can Someone Please Save Me from this Fuckwittery & get me off this God Forsaken Island!

It has gotten beyond stupidity, passed straight through Insanity and gone to a place so far beyond it that it is yet to be named. Kevin Rudd may not like sex, but that’s his personal choice. I don’t give a fuck who he is, He doesn’t get to decide what kind of Porn I watch. I agree all forms of child pornography and  beastiality should be Illegal and Banned, along with Porn that includes any Illegal acts such as snuff porn, and that which shows or depicts Rape. Call me a hypocrite, but sadly Law Makers do have to bow down to the Lowest Common Denominator.

That is, Porn Depicting Rape needs to be banned or at least controlled as there are dumb idiots that can’t make the connection that it’s acting & not real, and in their stupid simple inbred minds they begin to think forcing someone to have sex isn’t just a turn on, but completely acceptable – Do you get what I’m saying? It is the Government’s responsibility to protect us from such fuckwits, however in the process of doing so they have taken it too far.

The Lowest Common Denominator theory is why we have speed limits, and rules to enforce wearing seatbelts – because some people are just so stupid they can’t think for themselves.

Why can’t I watch Women Ejaculating or ‘Squirting’? What is up With Fisting? Or Flat chested Women for that matter?  It is not their fault they aren’t well endowed. As long as a performer is over 18 & fully consenting (with the exceptions mentioned above) why can’t I watch it? Buy it? Or Partake in the making of it?

Why?

Because Kevin Rudd is a fuckwit! (sorry -B if you read this) I truly regret voting for him.

Until some foreign Knight In Shining Armour Arrives to Rescue Me – I’m Joining the Australian Sex Party (Political Party) & voting in the one true way it counts, by voting at the polls, come the next Election (Due before April 2011). As Should you.

Visit www.sexparty.org.au And follow them on twitter @aussexparty & help prevent Australia from becoming an Island Ruled with Amish like Prudes In Charge.

You can also sign the Petition against the Governments Mandatory Internet Filtering Policy at EFA. And Visit www.somebodythinkofthechildren.com as well as OpenInternet.com.au to find out how you can take action against the Governments Proposed Internet Censorship

Please Tweet & Retweet This Post before our Island Paradise turns into Big Brother Hell.

Violet xx

If by some chance you like my version of the national Anthem, please feel free to re-post it, just include a link back to this original Post

I Did It Again

My Squirting Diaries

Yet another of my adventure in Female Ejaculation.

Last Week I had a marathon masturbation session. It was a rather intense experience, almost like an out of body Experience (OBE) – a bit like astral travel, yet different all at the same time. I squirted again today, but this time there was no Porn, OMG I hear people gasping lol. There was also an entirely different sex toy involved than in my previous squirting experience, this one also involved a double whammy g spot & clitoral Orgasm.

I had been texting -B after telling him of my original squirting experience – I realise He’s now a taken man, but I just can’t help myself. X had been very negative about it when I told him, outraged even. He called me ‘Perverted’, and kept questioning me in what I can only describe as an insulting way, saying things like “What? You were Fucking Yourself for 2 hours?”, “who Fucks themselves for two hours?” “where was Son while your busy fucking yourself?” “Why would you keep fucking your cunt with a glass dildo for 2 hours?”, along with comments like “whatever! I don’t get it” &  “It’s just wrong” said in a very stern snipey through away kind of tone. so I guess I told -B because I needed some kind of positive response.

I guess after those remarks It’s no surprise that the ‘truck stop Hooker’ style sex that was had on Saturday sucked and I never even got close to cumming. also when I made a sexual request I was told that there’s more to life than sex you know.

I let -B read the squirting Post – He was flattered that I had written about how I thought he had the perfect fingers to get a girl to squirt. He also asked me to be careful not to let X hurt me now I’m fucking him full time – well once a week. I told him X couldn’t hurt me – but fuck it his remarks regarding the squirting hurt so much I’m crying just writing them… This was mean to be a hot sexual Post, but it’s turned out Sappy & put me in a fucked up head space. Possibly not helped by the fact that I’ve had 2 hrs sleep in the past 48hrs.

I swear it is -B that causes all this squirting business, he relaxes me and (in-directly) reminds me of what fun I could’ve had with him If I had simply just let go, (I have huge regrets regarding him, but only due to my own inactions) Somehow he has an effect on me that does make me completely let go now. Incredibly weird as previously I acted like a prissy fucking prude, rather than embracing my true self, that inner whore & truly enjoyed the sexual brilliance that he is.

Anyway, enough lamenting on crap i can’t change.

I got my new 6″ bullet Breeze – a nice long thick bullet with great power, and started with my clit. This thing is an oversized bullet & really packs a punch. I am still yet to do further investigations into squirting, but for me it’s about relaxation, sexually stimulating my mind & working the Kegels.

The relaxation part came about quite quickly, and soon I was giving in and handing my body over to its primal urges. My legs widen, opening my pussy as wide as possible and my hips start rocking, & my pelvis starts to grind my clit against the toy. I started out dry, but was soaked before I knew it. With every thrust against the bullet I’d tighten my pc muscles in quick succession, then pause before repeating it over a few times. I experiences a number of small quivering orgasms, with each one, as I tightened & released my pc muscles I’d  do tiny demi squirts. My Underwear was getting soaked!

I feel so open, barren & void, My clit was singing, but my pussy was yearning to feel that void being stuffed full. I was so intensely wet, The bullet slid inside me with ease. It hit right on my G spot and I allowed the vibrations to work a little on it whilst my finger found my clit & I kept on with the intermittent kegels.

I could feel the small gushes of fluid as they ran along the inside of my pussy lips, down onto my thigh, It was as though a tap had been switched on. I Imagined how much some guy would love & appreciate my new ‘skill’ and the orgasm began to build. My G spot was starting to throb, my clit just grinding against my hand, whilst my fingers put more pressure on the bullet. That hand was coated in my juices as they really had begun to flow, my other hand was busy twisting my nipple… and I could feel the orgasm begin to roll in like a thunderstorm in the afternoon of a really hot summer’s day.

Every fibre of me began to tense up, but in a rhythmic way, each pubic push, brought on another, stronger wave of pleasure. I was to the point where I knew I was going to cum, and I didn’t want to waste it, nor let it’s intensity drop. So I went at it hard.

It felt like my clit was hit by a lightning bolt, which then flowed through the rest of my body, then My G spot Joined in. More lightening and thunderclaps as the orgasms from both inside and outside ravaged me as they collided. It was pure ecstasy. I pulled the bullet out to allow my pussy to convulse away to it’s hearts content and put the vibrations back on my clit, Just as my double orgasm hit it’s crescendo.

The Squirting gush truly exploded from me, sending my entire body into spasm. It was even better this second time. Possibly the most Intense orgasm I’ve ever had, and from dry start to soaking wet finish took less than 15 minutes!!

I’m going to do some fact finding research so I can provide you with more information regarding what’s happening when a Woman ejaculates, or squirts as I would love to teach you all to do it. It is sublime and ecstatic, almost tantric even. Once I do some reading I think I’ll be able to explain it a little better. I just wish I could’ve discovered this a month ago. Im sure -B would’ve loved it… although Im sure he’s seen it all before!

I’m also Proud of myself for finally writing a true post, one with simply words, without links or other superfluous crap.

All I need to do now is repeat this experience as often as possible & find me a replacement for -B, one who’s into squirting and possibly water sports, Might also see how much squirted in Panties go for. This could supplement my earnings in a great & very fun way!!

Violetxx

Moving Day

Cum With Me to my New Home

I’ve grown up & decided to move out of home people. I do love word press – and am actually sticking with word press, Just moving to my own domain…So I can paint the walls and embed whatever video I want & Simply make my own Rules. Screaming Violet is moving to ->

www.Screaming-Violet.com

All of the Current Posts have Already been Moved Over there, along with your Comments Etc. There are Even a Couple of New Posts already waiting for you…..

Such as Me Learning to Squirt – yeah that was kind of a surprise, It just kind of happenned During My Monday Night Masturbation Marathon.

As Well as a tour Behind the Scenes at a dildo factory Look @ Hand Crafted Sex Toy Manufacturer Vixin Creations. I Think I’ll be requesting one For Review From Adult Sex Toys.com

Speaking of Sex Toys & Reviews, I’m Almost done with my Reviews Of The Layaspot & The Curved Purple Swirl Glass Dildo Made By Don Wands – The Sex Toys that Made Me Squirt

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Come Visit Me In My New Home

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There’s Still Some Boxes I haven’t Unpacked and thing are a little Messy In My new Home, But I Am cleaning up, Checking links that may be linking to other content here etc, But Still I look forward to your visit…..Or as Fellow Aussie Lara Bingle says…Where the Bloody Hell are you?

But Unlike the Dumb Assed Australian Customs Policy – I Promise not to search you for Porn. I Just ask you to be kind and share it with me

See You Soon

Violetxx

I Taught Myself A New Trick

How I Discovered I can Squirt!!

There’s been a lot going on, I’ve got the flu and I’m procrastinating on 2 separate, yet almost finished reviews. I’m home alone Monday’s until late on Tuesday, so figured I’d just get myself off. Certainly can’t hurt to use the toys again before I complete the reviews, Right? I certainly need a little relaxation and ‘me’ time.

I’m totally enamoured with assbear.com‘s hand picked, full length (this one’s just shy of half an hour), Free Porn Tube Clips and began watching this clip below;

Source link:http://www.assbear.com/free/porn/teen-gone-wild

To start with I didn’t have the sound on & all of a sudden Im like WTF? Why does she keep jumping off of him? (yes I admit I’m often naive – but mostly just dumb) I was also enamoured with her larger than average clit – or at least much larger than mine.

Then I get a Phone Call, a Text Message, then a few tweets later and my precious Candy (My nickname for my new Layaspot) is forgotten, the porn has been abandoned and I’m out the door to do a bunch of chores. Finally get home.

Finally time to resume Masturbating. OOps I really did forget my ‘Candy’ Layaspot and hadn’t turned her off. Dead Batteries:( Oh Well! So I go grab my new Don Wands Curved Purple Swirl Dildo. Glass is so great, never need dumb assed batteries.

Now I can start paying some attention to the Porn I was watching earlier. . . finally the penny dropped. She’s Jumping off of him cause she’s Squirting!!

I’ve read a few things on squirting,I know what it is, I understand the principles of how it works and the theory of how to ‘teach’ yourself how to do it (actually If I remember correctly most of the articles were about telling men how to get women to squirt – Always thought -B’s fingers would be perfect for it. but as always I digress.)

The curved swirl wand seemed to be the perfect tool to hit that spot, that G-Spot hitting curve and the large head. I also found two spare batteries Under my laptop and fired my Layaspot back up.

I relaxed, I explored myself, I had fun. I really really wanted to cum, but it just wasn’t happening. I’d probably watched that same clip twice by this time; When with the wand inside me pressed against that right spot, the layaspot rested against it sending vibrations through the glass, my finger rubbing my clit and my mind in very naughty dirty places…I felt a gush. a tiny gush, but still a gush. Yet I didn’t believe it. I hadn’t cum, there’s no way that could be even a tiny squirt.

So I kept going, wishing I had a few extra hands, I truly ‘Let go’ of everything. When people say that getting of and having mind blowing Orgasms is in the mind for women – I tend to agree. An earlier, Indirect conversation caused me to let go of everything. I was so into it I didn’t have a single care in the world. I was 100% relaxed and didn’t give a shit about anyone or anything – It was an empowering place to be mentally.

Shortly after I felt another small gush like sensation, then another, and yet another. each slightly bigger than the one before, yet remaining quite small. I wasn’t turning back now. At that moment I probably would’ve fucked anyone that wanted me. I was sot turned on physically that It is beyond compare,whilst my mind was on a wholly separate plane, I didn’t even realise That 2 hours had passed. It felt euphoric, almost like an opiate haze – but that ,may be the cough syrup talking!

I still couldn’t quite believe I was doing it. I just thought I was extra wet and the ‘gush’ sensation was just my juices welling up and then running free… Then I seriously squirted. No fucking Denying it Now. My Undies were soaked beyond saturation, as was my skirt and the doonah I was lying on. All that pent up sexual energy literally burst forth from me.

And before some smart ass pipes up and says, “you just pee’d your pants” shut the fuck up. It wasn’t pee. It’s clear & actually kinda reminded me of amniotic fluid lol.

I’ll do some research and seek out the articles I had read and do a more descriptive post – But I’m just so…. well speechless. But I had to share.

So above mentioned Porn + A Curved Purple Swirl Glass Wand + layaspot + relaxing & finally letting go = Learning to squirt. Well for me at least. I’d love to hear about your experiences, or posts you’ve read about learning to squirt.

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And with this rather wet post I do hereby Christen my New Domain – www.Screaming-Violet.com – in the name of all things Fucking Sexual. All Previous Posts will remain at the old ‘screamingviolet.wordpress.com’ site, but I have moved all of the content here. Please beware of the construction clutter, still figuring out a few kinks with the domain & the theme.

Click the RSS Icon at the top of the page to subscribe to the new feed, alter your book marks or links to the new address, & If you aren’t already following on twitter do that too as I love talking to you guys x x

And if you have any problems with the site just leave a comment to let me know.(I know a lot of the thumbnails are missing images, and that the thumbnails aren’t linking to the posts – but like I said I’m still ironing the kinks.)

I’m going to catch some well deserved sleep!

Violet xx

P.S Since this Post I did It again, read about it – My Double Orgasm Squirting Post

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This week started off pretty boring and mundane. But by Monday night I was with FWB, holed up in a great Hotel room screwing his brains out – I’m working on a post about that. (& probably an addendum to my we vibe2 review after using it with him)

Tuesday sucked, Although the goodbye kiss was sweet. I’m considering whether or not to ask FWB exactly what it is he wants from me??? I’ve been thinking that having friends with benefits is almost like having your own personal free prostitute (I do love the idea of being a professional whore, but doubt my exploits will get me boosted up out of the amateur leagues of Whore-dom!) and wonder what kind of professional service he’d like the most. The quick suck and fuck? Or a decent GFE (Girl Friend Experience)? Even something in between. I just have to work out how to ask him.

I know that X would certainly choose the suck & fuck option, but never quite know which direction FWB will go when given more than one choice. However after a few little things the other night I think he’d lean towards the GFE side of things. I’ll to get that post finished before the weekend. Along with the 55 million others that are still in draft form.

In Other Breaking News In the World Of Violet…..

I’m Now Officially a Sex Toy Reviewer

I’m pretty sure I can say that considering I got my first Package of Sex Toys to Review delivered to my door this evening -> All thanks to the lovely Nicole from AdultSexToys.com

Whoo Hooo!

I finally got my Hands on the OhMiBod I’ve been physically craving… And I’ve lost the usb cord for the iPod! Such a Violet Thing to do.

My Celebrity Crush has a Sex Video

No, Not Dave Grohl… Although I think he’ll make me cum once I find that pesky iPod cable! (did I mention FWB looks like DG ★ score!!)

I’m talking about my female Celebrity crush – you did realise I’m bi when I want to be right? Well If you didn’t know, now you do.

Anyway Kendra Wilkinson is my #1 female celebrity crush. It’s odd when I get a crush going for a celebrity, it’s often because of their personality on top of their looks. Like Kendra rises above Eliza Dushku and Julia Styles, even Anna Paquin(she’s currently my #2) I guess because she’s funny and real. I kinda feel bad for her that a sex tape has leaked. But christ, she fucked Hugh Hefner, and posed nude a gazzillion times, but still I feel a bit bad… but not bad enough not to share her hotness.

EDIT: June 18 2010

Actually I feel so bad that was all ‘yay’ Kendra has a sex tape that I pulled this whole post off of my new blog @ screaming-Violet.com

Why? Because Although she is hot & has posed nude plenty of times, this video was released without her consent – & it also appears it was filmed without her consent, I haven’t seen the whole tape – But if Kendra wasn’t even fully consenting to the filming of her ‘sex’ tape – well it fucking disgusts me.

I took the post on screaming-Violet.com well over a week ago & I fully intend to write an open letter of Apology to Kendra for both displaying Images of her on my blog, but even linking to the leacherous mongrels selling the tape. I’m not afraid to be called a hypocrit, But when I saw a quick snip from her tv show in which Kendra and her wonderful husband Hank have a disagreement due to this stupid shit – I wanted to vomit. I’m as bad as the letch that pressured her into making the tape & then waited for her to become famous -> only to finally sell it after she became a mum. Shame on you – shame on me for publicising it no matter how small an audience I have.

I will be writing a full and Public open letter of Apology to Kendra

I just have to find the time. But for what little it is work I’m sorry Kendra

Violet xx

WTMFI Wednesdays – Week 15

Monogamy Isn’t a Type Of Wood

I know it’s late, but work’s been bat shit crazy lately… So this WTMFI Wednesday post is a week late, But it’s a meme, I’m not going to pass on a sexual meme….so here it is – If you want to take part Just Click on the banner below, the more the merrier!

This Week’s Questions

1. Have you ever cheated on someone? Have you ever been cheated on?
2. Do you think monogamy is really possible?
3. What has your longest relationship been? Were you faithful the entire time?
4. Would you forgive someone who cheated on you?
5. Who is the one celebrity you wouldn’t think twice about cheating on your partner with?

BONUS QUESTION:
Have you ever heard of Cuckoldry? Does it interest you?

This weeks answers:

1.Have you ever cheated on someone? Have you ever been cheated on?

Yes and Yes, In some people’s eyes I’m currently cheating on two guys, both X and FWB, depending on how you look at the picture. I should just get them both together and have a threesome!

I’ve also been cheated on at least twice by X, and FWB may have fucked others in-between our trysts, but I wouldn’t call that cheating. It’s not a committed relationship.

2.Do you think monogamy is really possible?

I do think Monogamy is possible, However if and when I enter another fully committed relationship I would be happy for it to be an open relationship as I fully support it in theory…The reality may be very different. But if you truly are in love and are having truly amazing sex that you can’t get enough of…Sure I think monogamy is possible.

3.What has your longest relationship been? Were you faithful the entire time?

Longest would be with X, almost 15 years if you don’t count all the times we’ve broken up. No I haven’t always been faithful, but I’ve never slept with anyone else when we have been together – Only when we have been on a legitimate “break” from each other and our relationship

4.Would you forgive someone who cheated on you?

Yes I would and yes I have.I’ve also been forgiven for my carnal sins.

I forgave X for having sex with some random girl in the park across the road from my home whilst I was pregnant. He also visited a brothel a few times and waited years to tell me about it. I was pissed as I had always told him he could fuck who ever he wanted to – as long as he told me about it. The delay in telling me is what pissed me off, as I’m a supporter of open relationships and marriages.

I was also forgiven by a friend when I was the cheetee – I slept with her babies daddy on numerous occasions. I knew they were kinda together and maybe fucking and that they had a baby together (I lived with my friend and her daughter). I was 15 he was 21. Luckily for both me and her she forgave me and tossed him, she’s now very very happily married with a few more great kids with her husband. I’ll never forget that she forgave me for that fuck up!

5.Who is the one celebrity you wouldn’t think twice about cheating on your partner with?

If Anyone saw my TMI Tuesdays Post, you would know my automatic response is of course, Dave Grohl. The hottest of the hottest!

BONUS QUESTION:

Have you ever heard of Cuckoldry? Does it interest you?

The normal definition of a cuckold is a married man whose wife cheats on him with or without his knowledge- wikipedia

I have heard of Cockoldry before and would love to have a partner who was into it. I could have someone to love whilst being able to fuck FWB, all with the added bonus of it turning on my beloved. Considering I’m all for non-monogamous sexual relationships it should be no surprise that I’d be interested in Cukoldry.

Another weeks Way Too Much Fucking Information Wednesday finished… But there will be another in the next 24hrs- considering that this post is a week over due (naughty violet!!)

Violetxx