All the Things going on Behind the Scenes In my World
[sorry about the post title, but I have a thing for stupid rhymes]
[EDIT - for more of my sexual exploits, sex toy reviews and more sexy fun, visit my blog at its new adress www.screaming-violet.com - All the posts that you find here are already there, as well as lots of new ones...So cum visit me there!!]
This week started off pretty boring and mundane. But by Monday night I was with FWB, holed up in a great Hotel room screwing his brains out – I’m working on a post about that. (& probably an addendum to my we vibe2 review after using it with him)
Tuesday sucked, Although the goodbye kiss was sweet. I’m considering whether or not to ask FWB exactly what it is he wants from me??? I’ve been thinking that having friends with benefits is almost like having your own personal free prostitute (I do love the idea of being a professional whore, but doubt my exploits will get me boosted up out of the amateur leagues of Whore-dom!) and wonder what kind of professional service he’d like the most. The quick suck and fuck? Or a decent GFE (Girl Friend Experience)? Even something in between. I just have to work out how to ask him.
I know that X would certainly choose the suck & fuck option, but never quite know which direction FWB will go when given more than one choice. However after a few little things the other night I think he’d lean towards the GFE side of things. I’ll to get that post finished before the weekend. Along with the 55 million others that are still in draft form.
I’m pretty sure I can say that considering I got my first Package of Sex Toys to Review delivered to my door this evening -> All thanks to the lovely Nicole from AdultSexToys.com
Whoo Hooo!
I finally got my Hands on the OhMiBod I’ve been physically craving… And I’ve lost the usb cord for the iPod! Such a Violet Thing to do.
My Celebrity Crush has a Sex Video
No, Not Dave Grohl… Although I think he’ll make me cum once I find that pesky iPod cable! (did I mention FWB looks like DG ★ score!!)
I’m talking about my female Celebrity crush – you did realise I’m bi when I want to be right? Well If you didn’t know, now you do.
Anyway Kendra Wilkinson is my #1 female celebrity crush. It’s odd when I get a crush going for a celebrity, it’s often because of their personality on top of their looks. Like Kendra rises above Eliza Dushku and Julia Styles, even Anna Paquin(she’s currently my #2) I guess because she’s funny and real. I kinda feel bad for her that a sex tape has leaked. But christ, she fucked Hugh Hefner, and posed nude a gazzillion times, but still I feel a bit bad… but not bad enough not to share her hotness.
EDIT: June 18 2010
Actually I feel so bad thatwas all ‘yay’ Kendra has a sex tape that I pulled this whole post off of my new blog @ screaming-Violet.com
I took the post on screaming-Violet.com well over a week ago & I fully intend to write an open letter of Apology to Kendra for both displaying Images of her on my blog, but even linking to the leacherous mongrels selling the tape. I’m not afraid to be called a hypocrit, But when I saw a quick snip from her tv show in which Kendra and her wonderful husband Hank have a disagreement due to this stupid shit – I wanted to vomit. I’m as bad as the letch that pressured her into making the tape & then waited for her to become famous -> only to finally sell it after she became a mum. Shame on you – shame on me for publicising it no matter how small an audience I have.
I will be writing a full and Public open letter of Apology to Kendra
I just have to find the time. But for what little it is work I’m sorry Kendra
I know it’s late, but work’s been bat shit crazy lately… So this WTMFI Wednesday post is a week late, But it’s a meme, I’m not going to pass on a sexual meme….so here it is – If you want to take part Just Click on the banner below, the more the merrier!
This Week’s Questions
Have you ever cheated on someone? Have you ever been cheated on?
Do you think monogamy is really possible?
What has your longest relationship been? Were you faithful the entire time?
Would you forgive someone who cheated on you?
Who is the one celebrity you wouldn’t think twice about cheating on your partner with?
BONUS QUESTION:
Have you ever heard of Cuckoldry? Does it interest you?
This weeks answers:
1.Have you ever cheated on someone? Have you ever been cheated on?
Yes and Yes, In some people’s eyes I’m currently cheating on two guys, both X and FWB, depending on how you look at the picture. I should just get them both together and have a threesome!
I’ve also been cheated on at least twice by X, and FWB may have fucked others in-between our trysts, but I wouldn’t call that cheating. It’s not a committed relationship.
2.Do you think monogamy is really possible?
I do think Monogamy is possible, However if and when I enter another fully committed relationship I would be happy for it to be an open relationship as I fully support it in theory…The reality may be very different. But if you truly are in love and are having truly amazing sex that you can’t get enough of…Sure I think monogamy is possible.
3.What has your longest relationship been? Were you faithful the entire time?
Longest would be with X, almost 15 years if you don’t count all the times we’ve broken up. No I haven’t always been faithful, but I’ve never slept with anyone else when we have been together – Only when we have been on a legitimate “break” from each other and our relationship
4.Would you forgive someone who cheated on you?
Yes I would and yes I have.I’ve also been forgiven for my carnal sins.
I forgave X for having sex with some random girl in the park across the road from my home whilst I was pregnant. He also visited a brothel a few times and waited years to tell me about it. I was pissed as I had always told him he could fuck who ever he wanted to – as long as he told me about it. The delay in telling me is what pissed me off, as I’m a supporter of open relationships and marriages.
I was also forgiven by a friend when I was the cheetee – I slept with her babies daddy on numerous occasions. I knew they were kinda together and maybe fucking and that they had a baby together (I lived with my friend and her daughter). I was 15 he was 21. Luckily for both me and her she forgave me and tossed him, she’s now very very happily married with a few more great kids with her husband. I’ll never forget that she forgave me for that fuck up!
5.Who is the one celebrity you wouldn’t think twice about cheating on your partner with?
If Anyone saw my TMI Tuesdays Post, you would know my automatic response is of course, Dave Grohl. The hottest of the hottest!
BONUS QUESTION:
Have you ever heard of Cuckoldry? Does it interest you?
The normal definition of a cuckold is a married man whose wife cheats on him with or without his knowledge- wikipedia
I have heard of Cockoldry before and would love to have a partner who was into it. I could have someone to love whilst being able to fuck FWB, all with the added bonus of it turning on my beloved. Considering I’m all for non-monogamous sexual relationships it should be no surprise that I’d be interested in Cukoldry.
Another weeks Way Too Much Fucking Information Wednesday finished… But there will be another in the next 24hrs- considering that this post is a week over due (naughty violet!!)
I got my first ever sex toy for my 20th birthday a gift from X. It was a rabbit style vibrator with the rotating shaft filled with little pearl like beads and a really high powered clit tickler, but it looked more like a dolphin that today’s rabbit ear ticklers. It was along time ago, back in 99 and this gift just happened to co-incide with getting my first computer with Internet access. Between my new best friend and a wealth of pornography just a few mouse clicks away I no longer whinged at X for working late.
My first vibrator and I discovered cyber sex together, however as it had a cord to the hand held controller, it was hard to play, control and type at the same time was kinda difficult. Somehow I managed. I think I used that vibrator nearly every single day for well over a year. Looking back, remembering that vibrator I realise it was probably made of some rather ‘un safe materials’ You could see through the pinkish purple jelly like exterior and see its inner workings.
After one very excited play session I came to realise that the clit tickler was no longer working. I had used it so vigorously that one of the wires going from the base into the tickler had broken. I was heart broken, I’ve always been a clit girl rather than a g-spot girl, so although it still worked as a vibrator my favourite part of my toy was dead.
I could see through the jellyfish like sleeve and stare begrudgingly at the little wire that was the cause of my frustration. The tickler had its own little motor which was one of the great things about that toys design. It created really great, strong, localised vibrations in the tickler, but I guess being great at its job was its downfall. The wires from the clit tickler motor to the base weren’t overly long – that is when I got a bit excited, and a bit vigorous with its use, the wires weren’t long enough to stretch as far as the jelly casing could.
After a short period of mourning I started to get over it, until X bought a soldering iron. Hmm I was thinking how I might just be able to fix my little best friend. I guess in hindsight I could’ve contacted the store it was bought from or even the manufacturer, but at that point in my life I would’ve died of embarrassment if I were to make such a call. ->Which is what I would advise people to do. Fiddling with electrical wires and such should be left to people who are qualified to do so. I could’ve easily turned my toy into an electro-shock wand and fried my clit
So with the new soldering iron in the house I started to wonder if it could repair that naughty little, not long enough wire and revive the clit tickler. Upon further investigation I realised that the jellyfish like sleeve could be rolled upwards from the base, possibly giving me access to the wire that was causing my grief.
I found that with a bit of force the sleeve could in fact be rolled up- a little like removing a condom, allowing me to access that pesky wire.
I didn’t however take into consideration all the little pearl like beads that lived within the shaft of the toy… So when I rolled up the outer sleeve they all poured out onto the ground. Half an hour later I’d picked up all the little balls and put them in a bowl for safe keeping. I then found soldering the wire back to its original position ridiculously easy.
Packing the pearls packed back into the rotating shaft however was a whole other story!
Over the next year or so that same wire broke so many times it wasn’t funny, so much so that that particular toy got relegated to the back of the cupboard where it eventually died.
If only I could repair its replacement, the batteries went crazy and oozed everywhere. In future I’ll stick to re-chargeable electric toys, or at least learn to remove the batteries before storing them.
I have openly called myself a whore, it is in fact something I embrace and even enjoy – but you need my permission to call me that ok?
So, the state of my unions. I have my(sometimes) X, I’m just going to call him x from now on. He wasn’t my first (far from it actually) nor is he my last. X and I got together when I was 16, way back in 1995. It was hot, it was passionate, it was explosive – but not always in a good way. We loved, we fought, we broke up, we got horny, we hooked up then got back together. Over & Over & Over Again.
After one such rather violent break up, I found out I was pregnant. If I hadn’t been…My life could be very very different. You’re not interested in all those details, so fast forward to now.
I also have my FWB, but haven’t seen him for almost 6 weeks. He lives a couple of hours away which makes things difficult. Also the last time I saw him he was having to move out of what had become ‘my hideout’ and didn’t have anywhere to move to until the very last moment when a work colleague offered him a room to rent.
I don’t know if he still wants ‘benefits’ (the last lot of benefits were amazing!) but he has stayed in touch via text. I just don’t know how to say or rather ask – ‘Do you still want benefits?’ I’ve pretty much thrown free sex at him, yet he doesn’t say yay or nay. Nor even hint to what he might want. I think he thinks I want more than sex – but just fucking is fine by me – the whore lol! (I do care for him and am not a shallow person, I’ll continue to love and car ’til he tells me to stop, but I don’t want anything from him other than sex and respect)
If the sex wasn’t so satisfying I’d forget about it and wait for him to want me. For all I know he could have a new girlfriend, in which case I should move on. I know he won’t tell me if he did. He would lie to me to prevent me getting hurt, although the lie would hurt me more than any truth.
I just love his ‘mad skillz’ and his huge cock. It is so nice to feel full to capacity, and he can do truly amazing things with his fingers and his tongue. I would love to try my new We Vibe2 with him – but fear that it would be a very very tight fit. He knows I have it, and although he has mentioned it, sadly no offer to help me take it for a spin with him. Maybe I could say I needed to test it as a couple for ‘work’…might work
I do have to go see him next week to pick something up, but I doubt it will be anything more than that. I need a new FWB… Anyone Interested? I wish Country Australia had Craig’s list…
And then there is x. He works interstate and he left our shared house (we live together) the other day. He will be back, mostly every other weekend. I recently broke down and started fucking him again, I can’t go that long without sex. I just can’t. Lately with x the sex has been Mind-blowing, especially since getting my We Vibe2 I have been having the most intense orgasms I’ve ever had!
But now x too is gone. This horny little house wife is going to become a sexorexic soon. My sex life is very Geographically Impaired! I can’t wait for my next shipment of toys to arrive. I’m already sexually frustrated!
I’m going to speak to fwb on Monday, work out what he wants, if anything and go from there. I just don’t know how to go about it.
Any Suggestions?
Violet xx
[EDIT] 25th May – Just got back from spending a rather pleasurable night with FWB & my new We Vibe2!!! Should have a post up soon regarding our evening filled with carnal pleasures
[EDIT June 18 2010] In Australia? Get yourself your own We Vibe2 for only $107.95 with free express postage available at Adult Toys Corner.com.au -> the shop where I bought my we Vibe2 – hurry before the Sale Ends. Honestly the We Vibe has revolutionised my sex life – I went from never cumming – to Intense multi Orgasms – Best money I’ve ever spent
I’ve already shared with you that my latest toy purchase was a We Vibe2 which I purchased from AdultToysCorner.com.au – Now I can finally share my review with you – you can’t blame a girl for really wanting to try a toy out before going on the record about it!
I had both heard and read a lot of the hype over the innovative we vibe – ‘THE couples vibrator’, designed for her to wear during intercourse. A toy that could possibly give me the great clitoral vibrations I often need, whilst hitting my g-spot for that extra thump when we hump.Then the new and improved We Vibe2 came out – I had to have one.
Unique in design, this revolutionary product is the first ever vibrator that can be used while making love. The innovative design allows for both external clitoral and internal g-spot stimulation for women engaging in both solo and partner play.
The We-Vibe is hands free, strap free and wireless. Created from 100% medical grade silicone, it’s soft, comfortable and easy to use. Treat yourself and your partner to A New Dimension In Pleasure™. from we-vibe.com
After viewing the video on the official We Vibe2 website My mind started to race through all the inventive and alternative ways I could use this little toy on top of the way it is specifically designed to be used, whilst my fingers raced to type in the name of my favourite Aussie Online Sex toy store. -> AdultToysCorner.com.au
Within 5 minutes I had ordered by new baby and less than 48 hours later it was on my doorstep. Mailed out in a very inconspicuous, bland, boring Australia Post pre paid satchel, No one could possibly workout what was inside without opening it.
Sadly I couldn’t use it straight away as it does require an initial charging period of 24 hours before use, but as I was prepared for this after viewing the official We Vibe2 website, I wasn’t too bothered.
The Product
Firstly it’s purple!! In my book that in itself is worth half a star!
It comes in really cute packaging but it wouldn’t be suitable for storage between uses due to the plastic tray, I guess that’s why it comes with its own cute little satin drawstring bag to keep it discreetly hidden in your underwear draw.
It’s tiny – it sits in the palm of your hand, smaller than the size of your average computer mouse. Although it looks a little like an office stapler, I assure you there’s nothing sharp about this product what so ever.
The entire surface is smooth 100% medical grade silicone that is Phthalate free and completely safe to be used as an internal sex toy. It is a fully sealed unit making it waterproof and super simple and easy to clean
!**Please do note that as this sex toy is made of silicone it is NOT to be used with silicone lube – Stick with Water Based lubes Only for your We Vibes and any other sex toys you use which are made from silicone. The two aren’t good friends to each other, despite the possibly simple assumption that silicone based lubes are made for silicone sex toys – THEY AREN’T – ok.. you got that? … lets move on.
The We Vibe 2′s silky smooth exterior hides its 2 separate powerful yet very quiet (<50 decibels) motors, one in the g spot end the other in the clit kissing head. The two buttons used to control the We Vibe2′s vibration patterns are also hidden under the smooth silicone head, one button on each side of the barely visible point where you plug it in for re-charging. I haven’t had a rechargeable sex toy before, but I sure felt the difference in power and strength of the vibrations when compared to other non rechargeable sex toys and vibrators.
Both ends of the toy have raised ridges on the contacting side to give that extra pleasure and ensure that it stays put once you start using it. Between the vibrating edge the We Vibe2 is very flexible, allowing it to truly be one size fits all as well as be used in slightly different ways. (see below)
I was glad I played about with the functions a bit before I used it as I doubt I would’ve found the switches whilst having sex. Even after
The We Vibe2's Vibration Patterns
finding them it was kinda hard to access and use the buttons whilst it is fully inserted, or whilst worn during penetrative sex. I found it much easier to switch on before being worn.
It also has another great feature I haven’t come across before, which is that you can switch it off quick smart by simply pressing either of the control buttons for 2 seconds. Great for if you get “busted” or if your like me and simply can’t handle anything stimulating your clit right after you orgasm
My Experience
The first time I had the opportunity to Welcome my new toy to the family I was home alone and although it is promoted as ‘The Couples Vibrator’ I found it to be fun alone for a little bit of solo sex. During its initial use I was in fact laying on the lounge watching some porn and writing on my blog. It felt so nice just buzzing away on its own down there without any interaction from me.
It slid in so smoothly and did exactly what it was designed to do – it hugged both my G-Spot and my clit. I was even able to get up and walk around without it falling off or even really getting out of place. I only imagine how arousing it would be to wear whilst out running errands or doing the grocery shopping – yep it’s that quiet!!
Whilst playing alone once my fingers came into play I had a slight hiccup in the sense that due to its design it prevented my natural juices from flowing freely and keeping everything wet and slippery, however a quick squirt of WATER based lube resolved the situation
I soon fell in love with my new we vibe2 and couldn’t wait to experience the extra dimension of pleasure that would be possible with a partner. And although it is not only possible but also pleasurable to use it (or rather ‘wear it’) whilst playing with a dildo or vibrator. However I could hardly wait to take it through its paces with real live hard cock!
Ever since getting it just a few weeks ago I’ve already lost count of the number of times I’ve pulled it out of my ‘Sex Toy Drawer’ to use both alone and with a partner. I simply can’t get enough – nor can he.
The first time he was a little wary, but the second I felt him plunge deep inside me I knew he liked the new addition to the family due to the deep primal moan he let out. My suspicions that this toy would be so much more fun with a partner were proved true.
It was so nice to feel ‘full’ of cock whilst having my clit buzzing. Every time he thrust into me it simply pushed the G-spot thumping head harder against my G-Spot. It was amazing, I wrapped my legs around him tight whilst we were in the missionary position so as to stop him withdrawing at all. My first Orgasm with the We Vibe 2 engulfed me. His cock pressing its thumping vibrations hard up against my G-Spot sent me right over the edge.
But as soon as I recovered I wanted to get on top and really take it for a ride. Normally the best position for me to get off in is good old girl on top cowgirl style, my clit grinding against his pelvic bone. This was part of the reason I knew this sex toy would be perfect for me. It didn’t take long for me to start cumming. It had been a while so I was exhausted and went to start giving him a blow job to finish him off, He loves blow jobs and has never once in 15 odd years turned one down, but that first day with the We Vibe2 he did.
In turning the blow job down he said- verbatim “That inside bit makes your insides vibrate and turns your pussy into “THE ULTIMATE SEX TOY” – his words not mine!
So we switched it up a bit and finished off doggy style!lol
Even though we don’t use condoms it was still super easy to clean this toy up after use, just a little soapy warm water and a quick towel dry and she was back in her pretty lilac bag plugged in charging for the next time we wanted to pull her out to play.
Since then We have used it many many times. Ok – so I used the fact I was writing a review of it to pull it out as often as possible, but he has as much enthusiasm for this toy as I do. It has helped me to reach some of THE most earth shattering orgasms of my life.
I have also worn it during anal to bring me to the most amazing heights of sexual pleasure and gratification. An experience I have trouble trying to find the right words to describe! I can only imagine the great joy of using a butt plug or other anal toy on top of the We Vibe2. *Never Insert a toy without a flared base into your butt, you may loose it and end up in the ER. Never place anything into your vagina that’s been in your butt without first washing it in warm water with soap (I prefer to use anti-bacterial soap)
As it had brought me such great pleasure alone I decided to try it out on him and incorporate it whilst I was giving him head. I simply opened it up a little and wrapped it around his sack, or over the top of his shaft adding that extra dimension of the vibrations on top of the blow jobs he loves so much. It made his orgasm so much more intense, almost like a lightning bolt went through his body as his cum shot down my throat. Something I’ve never felt him do before.
Conclusion
So maybe it does live up to its hype of being ‘The couples vibrator’ after all.
I’ve now used it numerous times, both alone and with a partner. For my pleasure and his. The results are pretty much all positives. However there are a few drawbacks, such as the initial charging period, needing to use a little water based lube for solo sex, and having to remember how many times to hit the button to reach my favourite ‘Cha Cha Cha’ vibration pattern (a process I’ve had to go through with every new vibrating sex toy) but overall it gets a huge thumbs up from me.
[Edit May 30th 2010 - The one thing that would make the we-vibe better would be if there was a wireless remote control to control the vibration patterns so you can easily ramp the vibrations up (or your partner can) or switch it off after you orgasm without having to 'dis-engage' from your partner.)
★★★★★ It Rocked!!
I've bought some expensive sex toys in my life and later regretted it, The We Vibe2 was well worth the $114AU I paid for it. If you enjoy a little extra clitoral stimulation I highly recommend this toy for you. I even bought one for my cousin as a wedding gift.
More Info:
For more Information about the We Vibe2 please visit their website we-vibe.com or their Aussie Counterpart we-vibe-2.com.au
In America you can order your own We Vibe2 from AdultSexToys.com Currently priced at US$99.95 - which if you order before the end of May you will receive both a free gift and free shipping (AdultSexToys also offer a Low Price Guarantee on top of paying the customers sales tax where applicable)
In Australia you can order one from My favourite Aussie Sex Toy Store -> AdultToysCorner.com.au
I wasn't paid to write this review and I bought the We Vibe2 for myself. It's also the first review I have ever written so I welcome your constructive criticism. I hope to do more reviews in the future, but promise that if a toy sucks Ill tell you that it sucks. It just happens that this particular toy really rocked!!
Violetxx
P.S. Found this official instructional Video that you may like to watch
The We Vibe 2′s silky smooth exterior hides its 2 separate powerful yet very quiet (<50 decibels) motors, one in the g spot end the other in the clit kissing head. The two buttons used to control the We Vibe2′s vibration patterns are also hidden under the smooth silicone head, one button on each side of the barely visible point where you plug it in for re-charging. I haven’t had a rechargeable sex toy before, but I sure felt the difference in power and strength of the vibrations when compared to other non rechargeable sex toys and vibrators.
