WTMFI Wednesdays #23 Sex & Music

⚤Sex & Music ♫

Sex & Music are possibly my two Favourite Things in Life. When they combine – It’s bliss.

This Weeks Questions

1. How often do you listen to music during sex? Do you wish you did it more often?
2. What are 5 songs that you love to have sex to? Why?
3. Have you ever given or received a lap dance from a professional? What about from a non-professional? Which did you prefer or which do you think you would prefer?
4. Do you find when you listen to music while you have sex, that sex generally tends to follow the rhythm of the music? Do you use that advantageously?
5. Does having music on make you feel more sexy?

BONUS QUESTION:
Do you think that you could ever strip professionally?

My Answers

1. How often do you listen to music during sex? Do you wish you did it more often?

Barely ever, Life is so much better when it has a sound track. Same thing goes for my sex life. Sadly I’ve wasted so much time fucking someone who couldn’t give a shit what I like, so no music whilst fucking. I wish music was playing constantly – and as it’s never playing when I’m having sex I sure as hell wish it was playing more often.. even just on the odd occasion would be nice!

2. What are 5 songs that you love to have sex to? Why?

Who doesn’t want to have sex to Closer by Nine Inch Nails?

I’ve also always felt Israel’s Son by Silverchair has that perfect hip rocking girl on top style bass line – it’s hard to just choose 5!!

All My Life by the Foo Fighters – just cause it shows you just how dirty his mind is (you tube won’t let me embed the original – bastards!)

East Jesus No Where by Green Day- that opening riff – & the drum line

And I have to round out my top 5 with the song that makes me want to fuck the most – ‘No one Knows‘ by Queens of the Stone Age – featuring none other than Dave Grohl on drums (surely you get the theme running through this list

And ‘If loving you is wrong’ by faithless – well who doesn’t want to either get naked or fuck after listening to that. There’s Probably a hundred more I could list… I think its the bass line that gets me!

3. Have you ever given or received a lap dance from a professional? What about from a non-professional? Which did you prefer or which do you think you would prefer?

No , never even been to a strip club let alone had a lap dance & never had an amateur one either. I’ve seen a lot of strippers are parties and such giving lap dances & more, but even that was way too long ago.

4. Do you find when you listen to music while you have sex, that sex generally tends to follow the rhythm of the music? Do you use that advantageously?

Yes, yes & more YES. I suck at keeping a good rhythm going over an extended period of time, so music is definitely a plus if I’m in control of such things. Just one of the many reasons I’ve always wanted to fuck a musician

5. Does having music on make you feel more sexy?

Music – full stop turns me on as a whole, so hell yeah – Music definitely makes me feel sexier than silence.

BONUS QUESTION:
Do you think that you could ever strip professionally?

Absolutely not, Not with this body, If I had my pre baby body – I possibly would, but there’s no way in hell I would now

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Wanton Wednesday #13

Wanton Wednesday

Over the weekend I had a load of drama’s with X – dumb bastard… Sadly my camera (amongst other things) became a casualty of that war. So no brand new pics…but….

I’ve already admitted to loving stripey socks, but I wouldn’t class it a true fetish, where as this is definitely a fetish for me, whether the ink is permanent on not, writing on skin just does it for me. I don’t know the technical name of said fetish, but it does exist. This much I know is true.

And then I got all artsy with it.

Why don’t you come join the Wanton Wednesday Fun, or just Visit Wanton Wednesday to see all of the other participant’s pics… Hopefully next week my photo won’t still be all about my legs.

Violet xx

p.s. it says “I Declare that my Love is True”

Scavenger Hunt – Truck & Petrol Pump

I Flashed My Boobs

I mentioned Sapio Slut’s Scavenger hunt in my last Weekend Reading post and ever since I first discovered it I’ve really wanted to take part. I don’t have the body to flaunt like Sapio Slut Does, nor do I have the Sexy Self Esteem Of Curvaceous Dee, but I still managed to flash my boobs in public places… Twice!

First time was In front of X’s Truck Last Sunday Night – I live no where near a train line & even if I did I’d never get on one. I’ve been phobic of trains since my brother got killed by one when I was 8 – So Road Train Will Just have to do.

The Truck

And I guess I can’t put it off much longer…

Then On Tuesday Night I went And met him out at the truck Stop on the highway and was in the position to flash my boobs at the Petrol Pump.I wasn’t scared to ‘flash’ at the world, there were only a few truck drivers around, and a camera that fed into the service station, but I didn’t care because I didn’t need to go in there. Once he had finished filling up we were moving to the other end of the truck stop to fuck.

Then I offered to climb up and clean his windows for him, hoping to get the perfect shot of my ass for my Wanton Wednesday Post. Once I climbed up the side of the open Bonnet He passed me the squidgey Window washing thing and I started washing the drivers side of the windscreen whilst telling him to get the right photo (I had my skirt hiked up so my ass was half on show.

“You have to..Ughhhh” he says and puts the camera down, climbs up shaking his head at me & pulls the windscreen wiper away from the windscreen.

I finished and half climbed down, half fell down and he went to put the bonnet back up.

“Crunch” & I get the ‘what the fuck have you done now Violet’ look.

He Put the Friggen Windscreen Wiper down, he should’ve put it back. It got snapped and I got sent in to buy electrical tape from the servo. Inside were five truckers all talking to the guy behind the counter, all of whom were standing around the monitor that caught me flashing my boobs. I could’ve died. I’m a whore on the inside. but so shy on the outside!

Anyways here’s the pic from the petrol pump.

I think that I should now qualify for some scavenger hunt award love…even if I didn’t get it all off – It’s Winter here in Australia you know.

So Now that I’ve struck up the courage to both take the photos AND publish them – How about you join in the Scavenger hunt fun too?

Violetxx

WTMFI Wednesdays Week #21

All About My Feet

It’s taken me a whole week to get around to finishing this round of WTMFI Wednesdays, all because I wanted to be able to add my own photos to it – plus I’m Lazy.

“Have You Ever…”

This Week’s Questions

1. Have you ever sucked on another person’s toes? Have you ever had your toes sucked on? Which did you prefer? If you haven’t, would you like to?
2. Have you ever worshipped another person’s feet or had your feet worshipped? If you haven’t, what do you think about it?
3. Have you ever been made to lick a person’s shoe or boot, or made someone lick your shoe or boot? If you haven’t, would you?
4. Have you ever spent hours looking at pictures of feet, most likely on the internet?
5. Have you ever gotten or given a foot job?

BONUS QUESTION:
Have you ever taken pictures of your feet and made them visible to the public? Where could we find these pictures?

My Answers

1.Have you ever sucked on another person’s toes? Have you ever had your toes sucked on? Which did you prefer? If you haven’t, would you like to?

my feet are open to being worshipped

I’ve never had the opportunity to suck on someone’s toes, at least not that I can recall. X has an absolute aversion to feet (amongst many other things). Thus I’ve never had my toes sucked on, but I certainly wouldn’t say no if someone wished to do so.

2. Have you ever worshipped another person’s feet or had your feet worshipped? If you haven’t, what do you think about it?

I’ve never worshipped someone else’s feet, nor had mine worshipped. I once had an encounter that included an amazing foot rub whilst my foot rubbed against his dick under the table whilst we were having after dinner drinks with friends. I’ll never forget it. What do I think of foot worship? Not much, haven’t really considered it much before, I certainly wouldn’t complain if someone wanted to worship mine.

3.Have you ever been made to lick a person’s shoe or boot, or made someone lick your shoe or boot? If you haven’t, would you?

No & No.  I am however incredibly open when it comes to people’s sexual kinks, so If I was with someone who would get off on it I’d be a more than willing participant, submissive or dominant – I’d be happy to do whatever they enjoyed most.

4.Have you ever spent hours looking at pictures of feet, most likely on the internet?

No I never really have, although I have spent the past week trying to take photos of my feet that I like and then an hour or so today editing them, but that’s about it for me & images of feet. If you were asking about womens Underwear or ‘Panties’ (fuck I hate that word) it would be a completely different story. Those who follow me on twitter would know, I’m constantly posting pics of ‘panties’ in my sex via violet tumblr stream & tweeting them. I often waste hours & hours on tumblr looking at them & re-blogging them. Another fetish I ‘picked up’ off a previous sexual partner.

5.Have you ever gotten or given a foot job?

I’ve both given & received, but never to the point of orgasm.

And Once a guy wanted me to kind of squash his nuts with my foot whilst he went down on me…which I of course obliged.

BONUS QUESTION:

Have you ever taken pictures of your feet and made them visible to the public? Where could we find these pictures?

Last week my Answer Would’ve been no, but obviously this week the Answer is Yes. Obviously you can view them here!! – but if you have a thing for feet just comment and Ill gladly send you the 20+ Images of my feet that didn’t make it into this post, and if you’re really nice I’d be more than willing to take more.

So that’s it for my feet, but what are feet if they are without shoes? I have a very very special pair of Shoes, a pair of Doc’s. What’s so special about them? Well I’ve got a size 10 (Australian) feet so it’s often hard to find cool shoes that fit, let alone in an op shop. I scored this super rare pair of marbelled cherry red & black Doctor Marten’s for just $8 at salvo’s in Caringbah. They Rock my world and I love them to death. I’ll probably get buried in them… So here they are.

Violet xx

Would You Rather – WTMFI Week#20

“WOULD YOU RATHER…”

WTMFI Wednesdays Week #20

I’ve been putting off answering this weeks Questions, to say they make me squirm is an understatement… As my Answers depend on the situation, or rather the sexual partner. My answer’s relating to X are the polar opposite to what I would answer regarding -B. A conundrum that’s spun me into a bit of a sexual existential dilemma, but it is one that has been brewing since I had to say goodbye to -B (or at least the B part of the friendship) and I have started to consider what I want out of a FWB or NSA sexual relationship. I’ve even got X to the point where he is liking the idea of the MFM threesome more & more, yet I really am confused and don’t know what I want.

The other afternoon I had a long chat with one of my bestest mates, an ex from a million years ago. My one true love lol. He was that perfect summer romance,, a guy that truly treated me like a queen until the day he had to return home. I’ll tell you more about him one day, I’m hoping to get to see him sooner or later..anyway back to our discussion. It was a bit of a loveless sex Vs sexless love kind of debate. We both came down on the loveless sex side of things, but with conditions… No we won’t be having sex together…EVER – our time came & went and it is a beautiful love bubble I never wish to taint (although neither of us know why we never did fuck?? we certainly weren’t virgins)

I guess I’m a bit used to loveless sex as I don’t feel the love in the sex with X, nor was there love with -B, but that’s not to say I’m crossing the possibility of love off  my list of future hopes, It just isn’t a priority right now. However I do like to love the person I’m with whilst I’m fucking them – which is one of the conditions my perfect summer love mate & I decided upon.

Loveless sex is great, but you do need to know the person, you don’t need to be friends, but as long as you know them sexually & are comfortable to express yourself sexually then all is good. (I never got to that able to let go & really express myself point with -B). It needs to be something more than a random fuck, a one night stand or even just a booty call, but certainly less attachment than even a casual dating style relationship.

When I’m with someone  like, let’s say it’s an overnight type interlude – during that night I want to be able to love that person, touch them, fondle them, kiss them, spoil them, please them and really get them off. I guess you could liken it to a prostitute offering a GFE or ‘Girl Friend Experience’ style service to a regular client. Actually Yeah, that’s exactly what I want…

Someone I can spend time with holed up in a hotel room, loving them, fucking them,ordering room service with them & maybe even watching a movie together. Both completely wrapped up in each other…until check out time when we go our separate ways and return to our normal lives. Staying in touch with an email here or there, or a text or two every few days to a week, all depending on your combined schedules. I like the idea of staying in touch simply to drive each other wild so that the moment you see one another you just want to rip their clothes off.

So if there’s any guy out there somewhere between say Newcastle and Lismore & you’re interested…email me lol. Anyway back to our usual WTMFI Programming…

This Week’s Questions

1. Would you rather have quick sex OR very long sex (don’t include foreplay!)?
2. Would you rather you orgasm every time, OR your partner orgasming every time (only one of you gets to cum)?
3. Would you rather have a super intense and completely meaningless sex session OR an average, intimate and deeply personal sex session?
4. Would you rather have more foreplay and less sex OR less foreplay and more sex?
5. Would you rather roll over and fall asleep after sex OR take a shower and then cuddle?

BONUS QUESTION:
Would you rather dirty talk such as, “I love your tight/big pussy/cock. I’m gonna fuck you/pound me because you’re/I’m such a whore!” OR soft, gentle and romantic talk such as, “You are the most wonderful person in the world. I love that you do this. I want you so bad.”?

My Answers;

Would you rather have quick sex OR very long sex (don’t include foreplay!)?

Well If we aren’t including foreplay…I guess I’d say a good hard quick fuck – with lots of foreplay… at least during the week with really long, leisurely sex on the weekends. I want it all!

Would you rather you orgasm every time, OR your partner orgasming every time (only one of you gets to cum)?

Definitely them. It’s important to me that they get off, as long as I get that craving for being penetrated fed, I’m happy not to cum.

Would you rather have a super intense and completely meaningless sex session OR an average, intimate and deeply personal sex session?

This is the question that caused me the greatest dilemma. I’d have to say the super intense but completely meaningless sex at the moment, but if I were in love I’d want that deep connecting, souls entwined, don’t realise 2 hours have passed passionate personal sex.

Would you rather have more foreplay and less sex OR less foreplay and more sex?

The more foreplay and less sex, I’ve been doing the ‘skip the foreplay, please just fuck me’ style sex for far too long so I have to choose more foreplay.

Would you rather roll over and fall asleep after sex OR take a shower and then cuddle?

Either, I’m truly not fussed, but I do enjoy being able to just go ‘aahhh’ afterwards & having a smoke.

BONUS QUESTION:

Would you rather dirty talk such as, “I love your tight/big pussy/cock. I’m gonna fuck you/pound me because you’re/I’m such a whore!” OR soft, gentle and romantic talk such as, “You are the most wonderful person in the world. I love that you do this. I want you so bad.”?

Can I have a bit of both? I’m a filthy dirty talker at times, but saying I love what you are doing to me, I need you so bad – well It doesn’t require love to say such things… so Im up for all of it, or even silence.

I think I’m going through a very experimental phase in my sexual life right now. Just wish I was exploring such things with someone I didn’t know so well. After half your life it does tend to become boring & bland no matter how great the sex is.

So after all that, what do I really want? I want an exact replica of -B, but maybe one who lives closer and talks more lol

Violetxx

WTMFI Wednesdays #19 For Couples

Couple’s Retreat – Week 19

Like all ‘WTMFI Wednesdays’ this weeks sexual Information Over share has a theme, last weeks was ‘For The Boys’ (which I am still adding submissions to – including X’s answers so if yours aren’t up yet dont stress i’ll get them up) & this Week the theme is ‘Couple’s Retreat‘

Do you want to take part -> If you have your own blog just click the WTMFI icon below & participate. Don’t have a blog? You Can Answer by commenting! So let’s get to it…

“And I Will Always Love You”

This Week’s Questions

1. How did you and your partner meet? Did you know immediately that they were the one for you? How long after you met did you start dating?
2. What’s your favorite thing that your partner does? What’s your least favorite thing that your partner does?
3. What’s something you wish your partner would do more of, either sexually or non-sexually, or both?
4. What’s everyone’s thoughts on PDA’s (Public Displays of Affection)?
5. What’s the kinkiest thing you have done with your partner?

BONUS QUESTION:
Are you forever kind of people and believe that you are going to be together for the rest of your lives? Or are you more of a live by the moment type of couple, and you’ll see what each coming day is like?

My Answers:

So I may be in a relationship ‘grey Area’ currently with X, but after the best part of 15 years It’s the only relationship I can comment on, & despite its many faults, it’s a relationship that’s currently working. I should be able to add his answers when he gets home on the weekend.

How did you and your partner meet? Did you know immediately that they were the one for you? How long after you met did you start dating?

We first met – very briefly as I was walking into a house (that was actually an office) & he was walking out. It was a place called St George Youth Housing @ Brighton Le Sands in Sydney. It was 1995, I was 16, he was 19.

I ended up moving into a house under the housing project, whilst X was already living in another. He was paying his rent that first day I said ‘hi’ to him – I was wearing a dyed lace nightie or petticoat, whatever you call the things they used to wear under dresses, and knee high lace up boots. I was HOT! so hot that my simple ‘hi’ earnt me a slot in his spank bank before he even knew my name lol!

A month or two later my friend Crystal came to live in the same housing program and was in a unit (that was the downstairs half of a two level building) just up the rd from my place. We spent a lot of time hanging out & I got to know her room-mates Lena & Rachel. Rachel had a friend called Esther – who looked so much like me people thought we were identical twins – only she was quite overweight and my hip bones stuck out! She’s my Doppelganger.

Esther’s boyfriend Tom lived above Crystal in the same housing program. One Saturday we were hanging around out the front of the house & Tom’s flatmate was in the group. All hip & cool wearing a black beanie, dark glasses and a blue flanno tied around his waist, leaning back on the bonnet of his Car. It was X. The group of us spent the day hanging out.

Sunday I know I spent the night on the couch at X & tom’s – My flat mate creeped me out. We watched Gorilla’s in the mist together curled up on the couch. I think tuesday & wednesday were in his single bed.

Thursday he took me to his Mum’s for dinner – I was vegetarian and asked If I’d like some Salmon instead of chops – then upturned a can of Salmon onto my plate…hmm lol. We then went shopping at Miranda Fair. I bought a glow in the Dark ZVinyl copy of the first Foo Fighters single (that’s how long ago it was.)

That night we fucked like bunnies – the only time I’ve waited any period of time between meeting someone, kissing them & fucking them. He later admitted it was only meant to be a one night stand, but I moved in and never left!

Both Esther )whom X had previously had a one night stand with) & Rachel… Tom too for that matter all told me to stay away from him. Very glad I didn’t listen. No matter how bad things were or get – my son is worth it all.

What’s your favourite thing that your partner does? What’s your least favorite thing that your partner does?

Favourite: He works hard & supports our ‘family. Least Favourite: I don’t think the internet’s big enough to answer – but -> Not lifting the seat to pee, never picking up anything after himself & using a roll of toilet paper for blowing his nose & sticking the used bits into the core -> he will steal the roll thats on the holder rather than grabbing a fresh one as well which fucking drives me insane!

What’s something you wish your partner would do more of, either sexually or non-sexually, or both?

Be Passionate. Kiss Me, Hold Me, Love Me – & go down on me!  As for Non sexually – simply be kind considerate, respectful & grateful, but none of these things are going to happen with X.

What’s everyone’s thoughts on PDA’s (Public Displays of Affection)?

I love them – He hates them – therefore they don’t exist they never have…except I always kiss him goodbye when he goes on the road – but that’s more due to ritual at times rather than as a pda.

What’s the kinkiest thing you have done with your partner?
We’ve done pretty much everything together, so it’s hard to say which thing was the kinkiest as it depends on the type of kink! And we’ve tried an awful lot of different kinks – but perhaps the live web cam sex, or acting out his rape fantasy I guess. I’m pretty much up for anything so if he finds himself curious about something he just tells me – never had a threesome though. He loves the idea but I know his jealousy would destroy it.

when hope is non-existent by ~innocent-greed on deviantART

BONUS QUESTION:

Are you forever kind of people and believe that you are going to be together for the rest of your lives? Or are you more of a live by the moment type of couple, and you’ll see what each coming day is like?

Considering that even when we do break up, we end up stuck with each other – I have to say the first. He used to be my forever, I wanted to grow old with him & never ever wouldv’e considered anything but. A few issues we had earlier this year, re-ocurring arguments and deep seeded resentments that perpetually cause the same arguments & I hear the same hurtful things weekend after weekend – Unless there’s some major shift I just can’t see it lasting.

But X & I are certainly not the spontaneous kind of couple we once were. 15 years Is a fucking long time when you are only 31!

It’s a rut to deep to drill our way out of I’m afraid. And I’m sick of being hurt by his words as well as his actions – Im sure he’d say the same about me though. We stick together for our son, and I doubt that we will put up with each other once he leaves home.

So that’s it – the somewhat depressing truth about X & I – it is what it is.

Violet xx

PS – don;t forget you too can take part, if you dont have a blog you can comment on this post or email me your answers.

WTMFI Wednesdays #18

For The Boys

As I am not a boy I’ve had to shout out to my wonderful twitter Followers & fellow sex blogging boys to get some help With this weeks Way Too Much Information Wednesdays

For More Info On This Weekly Sex Meme you can Visit the Creator of WTMFI - you can also see all of my previous Sex Meme Posts here.

If you have a dick & would like to take part You Can Email Your Responses to me  via Scr.im/sviolet ) or just answer them as a comment & I will format & add it here. You can also put them on your own blog of course (If you have one) just let me know so I can link to you.

This Weeks Questions:

1. Do you like your penis or hate your penis? Have you always been okay with the size or have you wanted it to be bigger/smaller?
2. What is peeing like? Do you sit or stand? Hold it or just let it dangle about? Is aim of huge importance to you?
3. What are you most often thinking about doing sex?
4. If you could change only one part of your body, what would you change and why?
5. When having sex, what is the one thing you are most insecure about?

BONUS QUESTION:
Boxers or briefs?

So Who’s Agreed to be ‘my man’ for this week so Far….

B from Our Sex Secrets (BTW – B & his Fiancée M are fellow Australian Sex Bloggers) 

So B’s Answers:

Do you like your penis or hate your penis? Have you always been okay with the size or have you wanted it to be bigger/smaller?

Personally, I loathe my penis in it’s current state.  I would like to have an extra inch or two in length, particularly when standing to attention, but I would also like to be slightly larger in girth as well.

What is peeing like? Do you sit or stand? Hold it or just let it dangle about? Is aim of huge importance to you?

I’m a standing kind of guy.  I have to hold it, otherwise I get my pants and the toilet all wet, and that doesn’t feel/look very good now does it??

What are you most often thinking about doing sex?

Since I haven’t had sex in quite some time, it hard to know exactly what I think about sex, however, if I were to be having sex, I would probably be thinking about how best to get the girl off, what position we would use next, and where.

If you could change only one part of your body, what would you change and why?

One body part ay?  I think that would have to be my body, I really don’t like the shape of it, I would personally like a slightly more toned body than I have.

When having sex, what is the one thing you are most insecure about?

Cumming too early.

Bonus Q: Boxers or briefs?

Boxers

B’s Answers are Also Available on his blog. Thank you for your help B, greatly appreciated.

Next Up We have GaryUncensored (formerly known as Dr Decadence) My fellow tweeter and blog Man @ GaryUncensored - thank you for Answering as well as posting on your blog Hope you will participate in future WTMFI Wednesdays!

Gary’s Answers:

Do you like your penis or hate your penis? Have you always been okay with the size or have you wanted it to be bigger/smaller?

I love my penis!  He and I have been really good friends for a long time.  We’ve been through alot together.  I’ve generally been OK with my size, because I’m a big guy.  I’m not gonna say how big my cock is, but trust me, I’ve had no complaints.  I’m 6’5″, have big hands and wear size 13 shoes.  You figure it out.

What is peeing like?

Do you sit or stand? Hold it or just let it dangle about? Is aim of huge importance to you?
Peeing freakin’ rocks!  I love to pee, and I try to do it several times each day.  I stand, of course…what’s that supposed to mean?  Usually, I just let my cock dangle when I pee, because I like to freestyle.  That’s how I roll.  And of course I am, I’m not a damn slob.

What are you most often thinking about doing sex?
During sex, I most often think about what I can do next to please my partner.  I get off on hearing a woman orgasm – that excites me alot.  So I’m always plotting my next move to help her achieve that.  Sometimes I also think about whether or not I left the oven on.

If you could change only one part of your body, what would you change and why?
My tummy.  Like alot of men, I have fallen victim to getting a bit of a round tummy.  I’m not morbidly obese, but I have a little too much stomach.  Fortunately, that can be changed.  I just have to find the motivation to change it.  I plan to start working on that next week.

When having sex, what is the one thing you are most insecure about?

OK, I know this sounds conceited as hell, but I’m not really insecure about anything.  Seriously.  I’m at an age where I’m still far from being an old man, but old enough to have been around the block a few times.  I’m pretty confident in the bedroom.  Face it, I am a pleasure machine.  I guess if I had to pick something, it would be my round belly (see answer #5).

Boxers or briefs?
Where’s the choice for “nothing”?  OK, seriously, the answer is mostly boxers.  My cock is a free spirit, and he loves to dangle loosely.  But sometimes I go with briefs.  I like to keep you guessing.<

Thanks Gary – I love that your ‘cock is a free spirit‘ that’s classic -> go visit Gary’s Answers over on his blog -> Gary Uncensored. Hope you will play again!

Next Up we have another blogging twitter’er whom I absolutely adore – Unwanted Husband. I have a real sweet spot for him. He was one of the first bloggers I connected with & I truly feel for his situation.

Unwanted Husband’s Answers:

Do you like your penis or hate your penis? Have you always been okay with the size or have you wanted it to be bigger/smaller?

I am happy with my penis when it is fully erect. The woman I am seeing says it is a nice thick cock. I would like it to be larger when it is flaccid (you know, a shower vs. a grower). Sometimes I do wonder what it would be like to fuck if I had 12″ and were even a little thicker.

What is peeing like? Do you sit or stand? Hold it or just let it dangle about? Is aim of huge importance to you?

I often sit to pee. It is a combination of laziness and because the splash back places droplets of water/pee on the walls around me and that is quite gross. When standing, I grip it with one hand so that I don’t miss the bowl. Sometimes when I first start to pee the stream is split into two streams from the compression of being in my under shorts.

What are you most often thinking about doing sex?

I think about nothing but the task at hand. How best to please my partner. I listen for the sounds she makes as I am doing things to her. I look for her faces of ecstasy as she approaches climax. I focus on keeping consistent the thing that I am doing to her when I have found the spot that brings her closer and closer to cumming.

If you could change only one part of your body, what would you change and why?

I would like a longer tongue. (My note – the best head I’ve ever gotten is from a guy who worries his tounge is too short! – Jusy FYI)

When having sex, what is the one thing you are most insecure about?

My ass. I always wonder if I am completely clean. Even thought I take steps towards keeping clean down there, there are things going on inside of the body that we cannot control. I worry that my partner will stick her finger or tongue in and find something dirty.

BONUS QUESTION:
Boxers or briefs?

I wear the tight sporty briefs.

Thank you for your Answers Unwanted Husband , and please dont worry about your tongue not being long enough. Speaking of tongues I can touch my nose with mine but anyways… lol

Another Response that’s anonymous until I hear back from him:

1. Do you like your penis or hate your penis? Have you always been okay with the size or have you wanted it to be bigger/smaller?

I like my penis at this point, and I usually like it more during warmer months than colder months: it hangs lower and fuller when its warm. I used to not be comfortable with my size, I thought I was too small. I’m 7 7/8″ long, 2″ wide, and 6 3/4″ in circumference, and it took me relaying those details to a gay man, and his reaction, to finally feel good about it.

2. What is peeing like? Do you sit or stand? Hold it or just let it dangle about? Is aim of huge importance to you?

Peeing is like a stream pushing out of your bladder and out through your crotch, the penis seems to be an afterthought in that equation, all the pressure seems to come from my bladder and taint. The penis just seems like a conduit. I stand, if you let it dangle, you may have a loose fire hose situation on your hands, unless its hanging thick with blood. Aim is pretty important, no one (save for assholes) wants to make a mess.

3. What are you most often thinking about doing sex?

I’m not sure I understand the wording of this question?

4. If you could change only one part of your body, what would you change and why?

I’m only 5’5, so I’d make my legs longer, i guess

5. When having sex, what is the one thing you are most insecure about?

Since I’m not a big guy, though I’m rather muscular, I feel insecure about not being able to make (my ex, my last sex partner, who was 5’7) feel like putty in my hands

BONUS QUESTION:
Boxers or briefs?
I don’t wear underwear, I haven’t since I was 13

Thank you my anonymous (for now at least) responder – Im sorry It’s taken so long for me to put your answers up.

Now This should be Interesting…

X’s Answers to The Questions:

Do you like your penis or hate your penis? Have you always been okay with the size or have you wanted it to be bigger/smaller?

I really like it. Sometimes I think I wish it was bigger but I have never had a complaint and it works for me

What is peeing like? Do you sit or stand? Hold it or just let it dangle about? Is aim of huge importance to you?

It’s Relieving. I Mostly stand, if im really sick or just tired I might sit down. Most of the time I just let it dangle and unless im trying 2 hit something I don’t aim (note he also fails to lift the seat as he’s sick of me whinging at him to put it back down) – but not sure what he may ‘be trying to hit’???

What are you most often thinking about doing sex?
Threesomes and blow jobs

If you could change only one part of your body, what would you change and why?
Nothing any more – (but after I told him his answer was sub par he admitted he’d change his sinuses! Hmm… they bug the crap out of him so I get it. I would’ve maybe changed him to be a little less hairy – but anyhoooo)

When having sex, what is the one thing you are most insecure about?
Again nothing I don’t care any more, I am what I am and if a woman wants to be with me she gets me the way I am.
Boxers or briefs?
breifs

Sorry I couldn’t help but add my 2cents worth to his Answers, when it comes to X I guess I’ll always be the ‘Bitchy Whinging Never Ever Happy Wife Type!)

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