Get Listed

Directories, Listings & Other Resources for those who have a Sex Or Adult Blog

This Post is a work In Progress, One that I will update regularly with new directories and resources as I discover them. I just thought it may be helpful for other bloggers to share some of the resources, programs and other ‘stuff’ I use to create my blog.

Other Cool & Useful Resources For Bloggers

Bit.ly – Shorten your URL, & share other URL’s easily on twitter etc, Features a really handy Bookmarklet
Add cool little symbols to your blog like these :★ ☃ ☯ ❦ ☠ ☣
StatCounter.com Free, Easy to Read, Analytical Statistics for your Blog
Feedburner – Create your RSS feed for others to subscribe to
W3schools.com - Learn HTML, CSS, PHP & More

Web Hosting & Domain Names

I’m hosted by Dreamhost, where it’s made super simple to transfer your existing wordpress.com blog over to your own domain name using their one click WordPress Installer. You can get a Free Trial with Dreamhost & If you enter the Promo Code : SVFREEDOMAIN you will also get your new custom domain name registered for free, Saving you an extra $15.

Most Importantly though DreamHost are Uber Eco Friendly & are Carbon Neutral - that’s right, my site is Carbon Neutral! Click the button to check it out.

The Big Search Engines

If you want to get seen you need to get your site name out there, Here’s the Links to use to add your site or blog to the big boys  of Search. Don’t forget to also add your tumblr stream or other accounts & online presences you have whilst you’re there..

Google - Submit URL to Google ** You can also submit your RSS feed &/or your XML sitemap via Google’s webmaster tools
DMOZ.org – the directory behind Google
Bing.com
Yahoo.com – requires a yahoo account to suggest a site – the ‘Suggest a Site‘ link is right at the bottom of the page
More search Engines you can submit your site or Blog to can be found on this site ->BBLMedia
WhatUSeek

WordPress Themes

Smashing Magazine Top 100 Free Themes – My theme ‘Designpile’ Is listed in here
Iyiz.com/wordpress-themes More FREE Premium Themes

Link Directories

Getting Your Blog Listed in relative Blog directories will both Increase traffic to your site and help increase your Page Rank, all of which in turn helps make your site more successful and if you are looking to get paid advertising it can assist you to earn more per advertisement.

If, like me, you also have a tumblr account, remember to list that as a separate blog, especially if it also contains sexually related content.

Often In order to get listed in a directory you need to provide them with a reciprocal link, all sites that require a link back are Marked with an Asterix *, Whilst those that have sent me a lot of Traffic & I think are most Useful I’ve marked with a star.★, more stars for those who bring in more traffic.

★★Adult Blog Hub – Requires the Reciprocal Link – But I highly recommend submitting your blog or site here as it is a great high quality directory

★★Australian Blogs – Sex Category

*AdultBlogster – You can get a Permanent Icon on Adult Blogster by submitting a photo of you with “AdultBlogster” written on your ass, breasts, or penis in lipstick, chocolate … whatever. No face or identifying marks please” - Hmm I take that as a challenge

Weblogs.com – Also a great Pinging site

ogle

	Sex Blog New – You can submit your site or feed, No Recipricol Link Is required, However I’m kind of Proud to have been featured by them as they aren’t Just Porn Pushing With their directory.
* *Adult Blogs Index *Adult Blog Spider *adultwebmasters.org/ *The Naughty Guide	Reciprical Linking sex blog directories Also Be sure to check out the Blog Tools for more blog directories, search engines & helpful tools

Other Possible Places to be Listed & Communities to Join etc

I haven’t fully looked into or checked out all of these sites, but they are in my bookmarks and could be of use to you. For both getting linked to & finding other resources & blogs etc.

Love Boudoir

Playful Bent

The Erotic Woman

Your Site’s Visability

So the Whole Purpose of Adding your site to directories and getting people to link to you is to get your site or blog seen. How do you know if it is being seen? You can check lots of different factors such as the number of pages that link to your site on google or yahoo, or what your google Pagerank is, or Alexa Rating etc.

Here’s some of those type of resources I’m using;
Websitegrader.com – This is where I got my Grade of ’91′ from that appears in my sidebar – 91 meaning that Screaming-Violet.com is better than 91% of other websites according to their Analysis

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Weekend Reading

Female Ejaculation & Free Sex Toy Give-Aways

I am finally over the awful flu that had me stuck in bed for nearly 3 weeks straight, so No more excuses for not putting together a set of blogs for you to read over the weekend.

Since discovering that I could Squirt I’ve become quite transfixed with the wonders of female Ejaculation and have been reading some very interesting and informative blogs and articles on the topic. This amazing feminine wonder that I long thought was nothing more than an urban legend or sexual myth, but now know first hand is 100% real & possible.

My Posts about discovering I could Gush for the first time and being able to do it again are the most visited pages of my blog so I have been working on my own little guide to ‘Squirting 101‘.  I thought it could be a cool way to continue to share my discoveries regarding female ejaculation with you whilst learning more about it myself. Whilst my ‘Squirting 101‘ posts are still in the research & writing phase I thought that those who have enjoyed those posts so much would enjoy some of the great posts and articles I’ve found on the subject of Female Ejaculation, making it a perfect topic for this weeks Weekend Reading.

• Helping A Woman Ejaculate from Tantra.com
• Female Ejaculation On Wikipedia
• Lady Squirters Blog A Blog devoted to the beautiful art of female ejaculation
• How To Make A Girl Squirt from SexTipsFree.com

There’s Plenty more Squirting Porn Blogs out there, as well as more helpful, honest & free resources, but those few should keep you bust for what little is left of the weekend.

I wanted to share some squirting bits & pieces with you but at the same time I want to share with you all of the cool currently Running Free Sex Toy & other Adult Product Give-Aways so you too can get free Sex Toys.

Sex Toy Give-Aways

Dangerous Lilly’s Milestone Give-Away – Which I’ve Blogged About Previously closes on July 1st

Of Sex And Love -  Two For You Give-Away Giving away ‘The Ultimate Satisfier‘ and a Copy of ‘Sex Is Fun’ – closes July 2nd

Misfit Momma After Hours - Giving away a Vamp Dildo ends 4th July

Feminina Deliciosa Hot Summer Nights Giveaway - Giving away Body Paints, Porn & sexy Lingerie – Visit her give away page to find out more

If I come across more I’ll add them to the list & as always If you have a blog or article you think I should add to this list, or Know of Any Other Sex Toy & Adult Product Give-Aways Please comment so I can add them.

Violetxx

Just a Reminder

Screaming-Violet.com Sex Toy Reviews & All things Sexual

I know everyone keeps Visiting me here – I see it in my stats – > but trust me head on over to the new site as there’s so many new posts – Including a new Sex Toy review as well as a couple of posts on teaching myself a new trick – the epitome of female sexuality…well maybe not – but it’s still fucking Amazing -> I discovered the joys of squirting thanks to my Amazing New Glass Dildo I even managed to squirt more giving myself an Amazing Double Orgasm!

I Also have a number of new reviews almost finished for you ->So what are you waiting for.

Change your links, and subscribe to the new feed – I’m missing you all – Especially those of you who want to read my We-Vibe2 Review – seriously you just have to get one. It completely rejuvenated my sex life with X. So Visit it and all my other new Posts on the new screaming-violet.com blog.

Screaming-Violet.com Sex Toy Reviews & All things Sexual

Weekend Reading – Down Under Edition

Hot & Sexy Bloggers From Australia

I love being able to share the blogs I’ve been reading with those who read my blog. Considering I’m Australian I figured it was about time I shared with you the other hot sex blogs from Down-Under

Ok so this first One’s Not a blog, Not even really a website, rather a show…but I have to include it…

Puppetry of the Penis. – Totally Home Grown Down Under & Completely Hilarious Be sure to check out the video’s and see if they are touring anywhere near you – a Must see show. I don’t however recommend trying out all of their moves – so don’t say I didn’t warn you!!

Now For The Blogs…

The Cherry Scoop – Fellow Sex Toy Reviewer, Fellow Australian. Absolutely the #1 Most Experienced, Sex Toy Reviewer From Down-Under. I really enjoyed her latest Review of the ‘Form 2′ by Jimmy Jane. Stay up to Date with her latest Reviews by following her @CherryScoop on twitter

Mysty’s Panties: Ok so I love Pantie Girls. The Panty Fetish is just one of the many fetishes I’ve picked up from previous Partners. But Mysty is about more than just her panties, she blogs about sex related topics, does reviews on Sex Toys as well, or as she puts it – ‘Sex, lies Panties & cum Find her on Twitter @Mystys_Panties

Mystify: is Mysty’s very hot Tubmlr Feed. I’m forever stealing or re-blogging the pics from mystify into my tumblr feed ‘Sex Via Violet‘

Ask Nicole: You may have noticed her link in my sidebar, but Nicole is Also The Girlfriend of the afore-mentioned Mysty, but also a blogger in her own right. Make Sure you check out her great post about her experiences with Anal Play. You can also follow her on twitter @AskNicole

I Teach Blow Jobs: My latest Aussie sex blogging Find from twitter, with great ideas, tips and tricks for spicing up your BJ technique. You can also follow Abby @iteachbjs on twitter. She really does teach people how to give great Blow Jobs IRL – a class I’d love to take

These Girls are certainly the cream of the crop, but some others I’ve come across include;

Karen’s Blog: ‘Where Fantasy meets Reality’ Karen Is a Professional Escort and is currently on tour – so no recent blog posts – But I am incredibly jealous that she got to go to last years NRL Grand Final (think Superbowl guys – but without the wussy padding & helmets!) Where my beloved EELs got Pounded by the Cheating Melbourne Storm. (They spent too much $$ on players and didn’t respect the salary cap – So ‘officially’ My precious EELs won) how did I go from Sex to Footy? Who friggen knows!!

Foxxxy-Roxxxy.com: ‘One Australian woman’s experience as a sex worker. A journey of misogyny, cruelty, condemnation, hypocrisy, sensuality, exploration, eroticism & ultimately, happiness.’ Proffesional Escort From Australia’s Capital.

& My latest Blogging Escort find….

Lucy Blake: Sadly Lucy is also on tour at present – but she will be back soon, and her blog is great fun to read – as is her website at www.lucy-blake.com I’m sure what she’s already written will keep you amused until her return.

& Red Light District Blogs: A Directory of blogs from Australian and New Zealand Bloggers, Most of the blogs I’ve had a chance to look at are by professional sex workers, but I love reading about their adventures and hope you will too.

I’m certainly looking for more Aussie’s blogging about sex so if you know of one – please comment and let me know – And If you have your own Blog or Website and come from Australia I suggest you submit it to AustralianPlanet.com

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In the mean time I have made a twitter list of my Favourite sex Bloggers from Down-under.

Other News & Going’s On

In other bits and pieces in my world – Had so much fun playing with my First Ever Glass Sex Toy, the Curved Purple Swirl by Don Wands that Adult Sex Toys.com has sent me to review.

X Loved Using it on me – I was actually quite surprised by how much he was into it, I was also surprised by how much I enjoyed it – with it being my first glass toy and all, but those raised swirls – mmm very very pleasurable.

The Review for it Along with My new Layaspot should be finished soon, I’ve just had the flu and I’m really not fully ‘with it’ this week. So sick I haven’t yet had a chance to play with my much lusted over ‘OhMiBod’.

I’m over being bummed over saying goodbye to the B from my FWB – Thank you everyone who commented and tweeted to me after reading that post. He is so ridiculously happy in love – how can I not be happy for him! But now after discussing writing about my sexual exploits with him I’m not sure if I can write about our escapades (as I promised to show him what I wrote before publishing it) – but we will see. (I bounce back quickly from these things – already screwing X’s brain’s out again – Whorage Win!)

And the biggest news of all…Screaming Violet is moving to its own Domain – However it is still a construction site – with broken links and badly formatted posts etc, so Keep your eyes open for the “official” Opening Announcement. I’m still busy setting up image thumbnails for the posts as well as fixing the “read More” break points and related posts etc. Along with all the ‘Official Bits’ such as disclaimers, copyright and other site policy ‘stuff.’

Happy Weekend People. Enjoy!!

Violetxx

Weekend Reading – Down Under Edition

Hot & Sexy Bloggers From Australia

I love being able to share the blogs I’ve been reading with those who read my blog. Considering I’m Australian I figured it was about time I shared with you the other hot sex blogs from Down-Under

This Weekend

Things that I achieved this past weekend

Friday: Went to watch my son’s best friends soccer game with his mum’s (yep, my closest friends in this town are [very hot] lesbians). Sadly they lost 2-1, but fun was had & Plans to visit them the next day were made.

Then stayed up until 3am working on editing some images for a Bride-Zilla (Ladies make sure you LOVE the color you chose for your bridesmaids before you buy the dresses, get married and have photos taken!!) very painstaking and rather annoying.

Saturday:  Slept in until after 1pm. Scrambled to reply to emails etc and get dressed to go visit my lesbian friends – who I’m going to call…hmmm….’The Girls’ until I (or you – of you have a suggestion for names please comment – I love comments) come up with better names.

My son rode his bike over to the girls house whilst I finished up work and quickly had a shower, I had soot from X’s truck all through my hair and one of the girls was going to be doing my hair for me.

Finally arrive at the girls place, discuss color options (I’m Australian and we spell color -> colour, but as I create websites etc I am in the habit of writing color) and I’m dispensed off to get hair dye from the shops.

X calls telling me he is nearly back in town after leaving Melbourne @1am, I go fuck around and pick him up. He’s pissed that our son & I are spending the evening at his mates place, and what I bought for him for dinner wasn’t acceptable. Off to the shops AGAIN

Call the girls explain the delay, theyre cool with it and just ask me to grab a bbq chicken and some salad seeing as I’m at the shops. I walk into the shops as X walks out. Frustrated as I hate both wasting time and going to the supermarket – Actually I hate all shopping unless it’s online.

Drop X home after receiving cranky lecture about how I can’t drive (My 1 accident in a car to his 2 car and 2 truck accidents!) and have no respect for his car. Run back to the girls house and hope he is asleep before I get home.

Finally get there with hair dye, food and coke. I can’t survive without coke to drink, nor can they, but they like rum with theirs.

Discuss my color choices, rich shiny chocolate, vivid violet and a glossy blue black – I can’t make decisions…we decide to whack all 3 colors in in slices, big foil like patches that interweave. The kids are playing, the mums are drinking, I get my hair cut & colored (whilst having great boobs in my face) leave my son to stay the night so I can head home and take advantage of X.

Get home X is asleep. Thankfully he’s asleep on the lounge so I head to bed.

Sunday: finish adding the images to the ‘porn for women’ post and post it.

Drop X to his truck, son goes for ride with X, meet a mate down the road, catch up say hi, when X catches up I grab son and mate & X head to Brisbane.

Son falls asleep pretty quickly. I’m horny, completely unsatisfied after craving cock for a week. Really wanted another one of those OMG the earth is shaking I can’t stop myself from screaming orgasms I’ve been having with X…and my we vibe2, Pissed off that after offering X sex in order to get wanted orgasm he turned me down…

He Turned ME down. Not fucking happy.

Consider texting FWB, consider phone/webcam sex. Nuh. Don’t want him to think I need him, or am just using him (but I do miss him, haven’t spoken in a week. Fuck work keeping me so busy!) I’m just going to have to go it alone – Sunday Night Solo Sex. Highlight of my weekend (after the girls great boobs of course! lol)

Decide to rumage around the big box of sex toys Nicole just sent me from AdultSexToys.com to review for all you horny lads and ladies – realise the iPod is dead AND outside in the car, I’m lazy so can’t be fucked. I wanted an ohmibod so badly, now I have one to play with and review, but my mood is foul. I want and MUST have the earth shattering orgasm I’ve been craving.

Such Orgasms for me are mostly clitoral – so figure The Fun Factory’s Layaspot (Mine is obviously the Vanila & Candy Violet colored one!) Grab the 2 required triple A’s and took myself to that orgasmic plateau, and then shot off into outer space. I love my clit, she never fails me.

My G spot is rather large but elusive, I swear it runs and hides as soon as it feels the humidity in their rising! But my clit, small and sturdy, she’s always there for me, always ready to please. – Well she almost left me one day – but that’s a whole other story!

I’m not ready to write my review on The Fun Factory’s Layaspot – I’m thinking of just calling her ‘Candy’ for short as that’s too much of a mouthful. Yet I can already tell you I like her. I like her a LOT. Really strong vibrations that can be very very focused onto the pea in my canoe. But we are going to do a bit more rowing together pre-review, I think more than one use before a review is a good idea – Unless of course the sex toy is crap, unsafe or somehow breaks. However ‘Candy’ is worthy of many rows around my harbour, I hope to take her to see FWB next. Vibrating clit with his tongue technique…. as close to Nirvana as I’ll ever get.

So that’s about all I achieved this weekend.

Things I didn’t achieve This Past Weekend

Putting out my weekly ‘Weekend Reading’ Post filled with the best blogs I’ve discovered – & this weekend’s one was going to be the all important ANZ Issue – (I was going to call it an ANZAC issue – but have great respects for our ANZAC’s – Australian and New Zealand Army Corp’s – for those not in the know)- but I promise you will see an amazing ANZ issue next weekend.

And Today….drum roll please . . .  I finally got around to registering my own domains and am going through the paces of setting up my beautiful sexy blog up into it’s own customised theme and adding lots of bells and whistles. (I downloaded pictures of about 100 different purple sex toys today to create some artwork for it)

Most Importantly though I signed up for Eden Fallacy’s @ Edenfalacys.com – a project set up by the lovely ‘Ask Nicole‘ , who just happens to be Australian and the lucky Lady Love of Mysty from Mystyspanties.com and assisted by many others. I promise to tell the rest of you about once I get enough time to write a proper post.

Until then please check out:

• EdenFallacys.com
• Mystyspanties.com & Most Importantly
• Ask Nicole especially her Great Post ‘Anal Pleasures‘ about her experiences with Anal. – be sure to follow them and subscribe to their rss feeds too.

Violetxx

Weekend Reading – Top Sex Tweeters

Top Sex Tweeters I follow on Twitter & their Blogs.

I am only new to Twitter, I’ve made only 217 tweets at this point, but I’m hooked. I enjoy how easy it is to disseminate information throughout a community of peers – such has been evident in the sex and sex toy blogging community after what has come to be known as the ‘Eden Fallacies‘ scandal.  I’m also hooked on the instant gratification and interactivity of it all.

It is a great way to keep up to date with all your favourite websites and blogs latest posts as well as pictures, articles and other ‘stuff ‘ they share with their followers.

Plus I’ve discovered you can follow people and tweet your way to winning Free Sex Toy Give-Aways!

So In Lieu of a Post of the sexually related blogs I’ve read this week I thought I’d share some of the sexy bloggers and websites I follow on Twitter (along with a link to their great Blogs!) If you aren’t already following me @VioletScreaming on twitter you better do so now for my latest blog posts, Pics and more!! – check out my twitter profile for a full list of the people I follow on Twitter.

BTW – Most Of These Tweeters Post things that ARE NSFW

My #1 Tweeter is of course @Alexa_DiCarlo from RealPrincessDiaries.com – not only is she fun and the owner of an Amazing Blog, she’s also tweeted live whilst fucking clients, and constantly tweets super hot pics and other interesting articles etc regarding all things sexual. Please Read her Twitter Page at RPD before you start following her

I’d Also Like to make Special Mention Of @TheCherryScoop, Fellow sex blogger, and Sex Toy Reviewer who just happens to also be from Australia – just like me!! Please check out her cool blog at ThCherryScoop.blogspot.com

Now for more Sex Toy Reviewers Who’s Blogs I’ve been Reading and Loving this week.

@Epiphora – HeyEpiphora.com – I mentioned Epiphora and her blog in my last ‘Weekend Reading‘ post with a little bit about her being banned from the Community @ sex toy retailer Eden Fantasy’s website, It appears her banning led to the Discovery of the sites Un-Ethical link trading Practises by another fellow sex blogger Maymay over at Maybe Maimed, But Not Harmed. The Fallout of Which has earned itself the unflattering Moniker of ‘Eden’s Fallacies’ Visit Epiphora’s Latest Post On the Eden’s Fallacies for more Information -> Eden Fantasy’s  A Pattern of Deception.

@Essinem – Essin-em.com- Sexuality Happens- Another blogger mentioned in My last ‘Weekend Reading‘ post of bloggers who’ve been burned by EF, as a former employee of the company she was also treated very disrespectfully.

@aagblog - aagblog.com – Also mentioned last week, Always Aroused Girl has also had to take the company behind EF to court in order to get money owed to her. See her blog for more info on her troubles with them as well as the breaking Scandal. AAG even coined the term ‘bullshitilicious’ to describe the situation of EF being a link Black Hole earning their reputation yet another Black Mark.

But it doesn’t end there, more sex toy reviewers and members of the sex blogging community have been banned from the sites public forums without any warning for simply asking questions whilst others have been banned without even making a post to the forums.

I’m a Big Fat N00BIE and can’t really write about what is going on, but I can say it’s Fucked Up, and I can tell you about these great people who are being treated like crap and direct you to their sites to read about it for itself. I can also thank those who have spoken up and made this public so that other N00bs like me know to steer well clear of the bs.

@WilhemenaWang has published a Link Round-Up : Eden Fantasy’s, More Like Epic FAIL on her website Heart Break Nymphomania

@Britisshameless – Oh My God That Britni’s Shameless Blog – Not only keep up to date with the latest posts to the blog, but be pleasured and entertained by the sexy and funny pics she posts on twitter – also check out->  BritIsShameless on tumblr

@Caenivalesque – Carnivalesque.com – Where Life’s a Carnival – exploring sex and sexuality, sex toy reviews  and more.

@Adriana_r from ofsexandlove.com – Her blog is a wealth of information on love and sex – but mostly sex. Hers is the latest blog I have absolutely devoured this week, and I can’t wait for more.

@toywithme – twitter account of the ToyWithMe.com website for sex toy reviews and more… Loving their Latest post by Nicole Antoinette – Six Things I learned From My Sex Swing

@Babeland_Toys – www.babeland.com – Top quality sex toys for a passionate world

@VixinCreations – Vixen Creations.com– Creators Of the Super Realistic, Super Safe Range Of Sex Toys.-As Re-Tweeted by @Babeland_Toys they’re the ‘World’s Best Cock Makers’

Now For those FREE Sex Toy Give-Aways I told you about

Follow these tweeters & check out their blogs to win your very own sex toy in their current Give-Aways ;

@Pleasurists -Pleasurists Adult Review Round-Up – Published Weekly Promoting that weeks Sex Toy Reviews, and Sex Toy Give-Aways. Kind of the one stop shop to find the most recent sex toy reviews as well as the adult and sex toy Give-Aways

@CrystalDToys – www.VirtuallyAdult.com – Are Giving away a free, yet to be released on the Market  A Red Magma Crystal Delights Plug when they reach 300 Followers,-  {View It Here} so Follow, Tweet & Re-Tweet. Currently at 234 followers, only 66 more people til they one lucky follower wins it!

@JonsBabyDoll – her blog The Blogging Slave – Follow @JonsBabyDoll and ask her questions via her formspring account to participate in her sex toy giveaway – visit her giveaway post for further information.

@PrettyPowrTools – PrettyPowerTools.com – Is currently celebrating her blog’s ‘Dirty Thirty’ by giving away a free ‘OhMiBod’ Musically Powered Vibrator. I’ve entered have you?

@SplendWhore – From Tales From the Toi Box- Sex Blogger and Sex Toy Reviewer, Currently very active in participating in the sex toy givea-ways, watch her daily tweets for more info on the currently open give-aways

@NamelessChaos – NamelessChaos- Another great person to follow for all the sex toy give-aways.

Both these tweeters are courteous enough to warn you before they do their daily give-away spam like tweeting – so either pay attention for the latest give-aways or look away to ignore the spam.

And…I think that’s it, yet know there are many many more. You can view the list all of the people I follow on twitter, or Any of my other twitter lists at @VioletScreaming.

Do you think you or someone else belongs on this list? Just let me know… I love when you share.

Violetxx

Turn Me On

Turn it up to turn me on

The two highest ranking – non sexual turn ons I have are music – LOUD music and driving fast.

I often not only get wet, but also find myself bucking my hips uncontrollably and completely unconsciously.Just like I would if I were sitting astride a guy. Always in time to the beat of the bass. I do love a great bass line.

So it stands to reason I really do want an OhMiBod vibrator. One that vibrates in time with the music. For someone who can get off on the music alone – I think it would be the perfect sex toy for me!

Pretty Power Tools are giving away a free OhMiBod Vibrator.

If you doubt that this is the #1 sex toy on my wish-list – well just visit my Wishlist Shopping Spree Post

If you too want to enter the draw Visit Pretty Power Tools

Or if you want to buy your own OhMiBod vibrator Visit AdultSexToys.com Where they are ridiculously discounted down to

So please wish me luck! If I were so lucky to win, I promise to share my playlist! : P

Violetxx

Weekend Reading

Sex Starved Love

Welcome to Another weeks worth of Weekend Reading. I apologise for its lateness, but I had my publishing abilities suspended after linking to a site that WordPress.com had black listed. I have now removed the link to lubetube the offending site and can hit the publish button once again.

This week two particular ‘themes’ or ‘situations’ that fall under the banner of ‘All things Sexual’ have really gotten under my skin. #1 is relationships where partners sexual drives are out of balance. #2 is people being fired or otherwise being discriminated because they write about sex online. (I’m sorry that there are so few blogs on this weeks reading list – my browser crashed & erased not only all the tabs I had open, but their history too grrr…Look out for a mid week reading list lol)

I know far too many truly amazing guys who are married or partnered up with truly ungrateful women. Men that long to tease, please, spoil and pleasure their partners both in and out of the bedroom but are being denied the satisfaction of bringing sexual pleasure to the woman they love. But it isn’t a one way street as their are plenty of women who long to suck and fuck their men til the cows come home out their being ignored.

• Unwanted Husband
• Sex-starved: 20-million American Couples Going ‘Without‘ – **Article – Goes to show you’re not alone!
• Sex With The Wife
• Article -> The Sex Starved Marriage

Far too many people in relationships are going without and falling asleep sexually frustrated right beside the one they love. It is so common that the term ‘sexorexic’ has been coined!  It is a topic that I have strong feelings towards and intend to discuss further in the future.

★People Who have gotten fired for tweeting and blogging about sex :

This is a hole I could so easily fall into. With twitter accounts being linked to your email address you too could find yourself in hot water for expressing your sexual thoughts and feelings in tweets. Not all of these blogs and articles are from people who got fired…but they all found themselves in some uncomfortable situations due to sexual tweets!!

• I Got Fired For Writing About Sex – How ‘The Beautiful Kind’ got fired
• The Beautiful Kinds blog – the one that got her fired.
• The Google results regarding her getting fired for her sex blog
• I was Dr Decadence - he didn’t loose his job… but he got burned

Considering that the ‘I got fired For Writing About Sex’ is published on part of the ‘Eden Fantasys network Isn’t it ironic that they too (Eden Fantasys) have fired or rather banned other sex bloggers from their very wide network of reviewers. (still editing this)

**this list has grown from two banned sex toy reviewers to…well you can count… I will add to this list as I continue to find more sex blogger’s who have been ‘banned’ by this company. **the more I look the more I find…

• Always Aroused Girl
  • May 14th 2010☛ Problems with EdenFantasys, Take Nine-Thousand
  • August 19th 2009 Following
  • March 23rd 2009 ☛Back to the beginning
  • January 5th 2009☛ Update on EdenFantasys.com Problems
  • October 17th 2005 **Updated since to cover all of her dramas with the company**☛ Problems With Eden Fantasys
  • Always Aroused Girl May have more posts regarding her issues with EF – go visit her blog. Actually you should seriously follow her blog!!

• Hey Epiphora - the latest sex toy reviewer and adult blog writer ‘banned’ by EF
• Essin-Em
• Ask Garnet – a Wolf in Sheeps Clothing
• Sarah Sloane – on Money, Ethics & real sex-positivety

Ok.. I’m going to quit adding links to this weekends reading list now. I’m so pissed that these women have been treated so poorly by EF that I’m going to have to do an entire post on it.

As much as their treatment sucks, I am very grateful they have all blogged about it – as I won’t be pursuing any kind of relationship with that sex toy site. I am however very happy that I will soon be working with Adultsextoys.com as a reviewer whilst doing my bit to get Australian Adult and sex toy stores to get their shit together and start reviewers programs.

Again I apologise for skewing far from my original subject of sexless love – but I will be blogging about it in the very near future

With love from one very pissed of and honestly…Screaming Violet xx

Why I Love Blogs

The how & the why behind the fact that I ♥ blogs so much

I’ve been working on putting together this weeks ‘Weekend Reading‘ post, however I ended up writing about why I love reading blogs and how I go about following them. I ended up so far from simply listing this weeks worth of favourite blogs that I thought I should simply create a post from it… So here it is.

One of the reasons I love to read peoples blogs is because they are written from their owner’s personal point of view – well duh!! – but what I mean is that I find blogs to be so much more personal and insightful than other forms of written media. Bloggers usually don’t have a boss to answer to, nor a set of rules to follow etc, they are writing to simply share themselves.  Most bloggers are sharing the most vulnerable parts of themselves, the parts that they cannot share with those people involved in their everyday life. I guess it appeals to the voyeur in me.

The connection between writer and reader is so much closer and intimate through blogs. A relationship that seems to grow over time as you follow them through the trials and tribulations of their lives. There are plenty of ways to follow blogs, you can bookmark them, subscribe to their rss feed and read their latest posts via your favourite reader – such as google reader, some (such as mine) you can subscribe to via email and you can often follow the author of a blog on twitter to be kept up to date as to their latest posts.

I personally follow my favourite blogs via twitter, and subscribe to their rss feeds via google reader. However I use an add on to my Fire Fox browser called ‘feedly‘ to have all of my favourite blogs I subscribe to via google reader  sorted and presented in an online magazine style page. It them all together in one place, in a super easy to sort through and read layout, All of which I can access with one click on the icon next to the address bar in Firefox – So please do Check Feedly out.

Most of my favourite blogs that I follow are linked to in the sidebar, or at the bottom of the page in my blogroll. My Rss Feed can be subscribed to via the little orange icon at the top of every page, or you can follow me @VioletScreaming on twitter. If you have any problems with subscribing to my feed or to any other sites feeds feel free to comment or contact me for help.

If you know of, or have a blog you think I should be following please feel free to comment below.

Violet xx