I’m Giving Away Free Sex Toys

If you don’t Already Know

Screaming Violet has moved to my own domain Screaming-Violet.com

But lots of people are still visiting my blog here! I don’t want anyone to miss out so I’m going to publish a copy of my give away here as well, but Please NOTE: you need to visit the Death By Orgasm Give Away page at Screaming-Violet.com to make your comments and enter.

And just in case you missed it you must Visit my Give Away page in order to have your entries count – ok? you got that? cool – so here’s the info on my first sex toy Give Away

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I’ve got Sex Toys to Give Away!!

I’m very very Excited to announce my very first sex toy give-away that is very kindly being sponsored by the amazing folks at Good Vibrations!

As you should all know by now I live Down Under and sadly that means I can’t personally take part in the Good Vibes Review program as they only send items to reviewers within the US, bummer for me, but bonus for you as they have agreed to let me give away some products instead of reviewing them.

So what am I giving away?

I’m pleased to announce that in the run up to Halloween I’ll be giving away The Death By Orgasm Scorpion, a slightly scary yet still sexy bullet vibrator with a stunning scorpion sleeve.

There’s a range of 5 toys in the Death By Orgasm line, the Werewolf, the Mummy, the Zombie, the Vampire & of course the Scorpion. They are all really cute water proof bullet style vibrators in a range of colors, but the Scorpion is the only one that comes with a stimulating sleeve. It is created from Elastomer and ABS Plastic & is powered by 3 watch batteries which are all supplied for you. It also has possibly the coolest packaging that I’ve ever seen for a sex toy, such cute little lined coffins that double as fantastic storage.

How To Enter

For each entry you must leave a comment, so for the bonus entries if it says (3 entries) you need to leave 3 separate comments.

The Prize will only be shipped within the US((however if you have a friend or family member in the US who can ship it to you once they receive it you are welcome to enter no matter where you live))

The Give Away is open until October 22nd. The Winner will be chosen using random.org and will be announced here on Screaming-Violet.com on October 23rd. The winner will then need to provide me with their postal address so that Good Vibrations can send you your prize.

If you have any questions you can email me at violet [at] screaming-violet.com

The First and Mandatory Entry:

• Leave a comment telling me your favourite Un-Dead character (it can be from a book, movie, tv series, comic or whatever) – Mines Spike from Buffy & Angel *swoon*

Extra Bonus Entries;

• Follow me @VioletScreaming on twitter (1 entry)
• Follow @GoodVibesSF on twitter (1 entry)
• Visit Good Vibrations and tell me which product they sell that you lust over the most (1 entry)
• Like Good Vibrations on Facebook (3 entries)
• Subscribe to the Good Vibrations Email Newsletter (3 entries)
• Subscribe to Screaming-Violet.com via RSS (3 entries)
• Subscribe to Screaming-Violet.com via Email (3 entries) **be sure to follow the confirmation link in the email you will receive to ensure your subscription is validated
• Place a link to Screaming-Violet.com on your website or blog (5 entries) – leave a link to your blog or website in your comment
• Blog about my Give away (5 entries) – leave a link to your post in your comment
• You can also tweet about the give away once a day (1 extra entry per daily tweet) “#WIN a Death By Orgasm Scorpion from @GoodVibesSF & @VioletScreaming – enter now http://bit.ly/bmQMk9 – #Giveaway ends Oct 22nd“

**All comments are moderated and all entries will be checked for validity before they are published

Good Luck to Everyone who enters, If you have any questions feel free to email me violet [at] screaming-violet.com

 

& don’t forget to make your comments on the official Give Away page so that they will count

Violet xx

WTMFI Wednesday #22 All About Anal

Anal Explorations

“That’s Tight”

This Week’s Questions

1. What are your thoughts on anal sex? Have you ever had it?
2. Do you enjoy watching porn with anal sex?
3. If you’ve had anal sex, what was your first time like? If you haven’t had anal sex and want to, what do you hope for your anal sex experience?
4. Do you own any sex toys for anal penetration? If not, do you want to?
5. Do you always use condoms or do you sometimes allow bareback?

BONUS QUESTION:
What are your thoughts on society’s negative views of anal sex?

1.What are your thoughts on anal sex? Have you ever had it?

I’m pretty open So my thoughts on Anal… Well I’m certainly open to it, but it’s certainly something that it up to the individual. I’d written it off for years & years before I decided to give it another go.

I’ve only ever had Anal with One partner, but there was over a decade between the first period of time I when  was having Anal with him and the second time we tried, and since then I’ve lost count of the number of times we’ve done it. But the first time round it was rather painful to start with, probably because I was young, naive and doubt there was any lube involved. Second time round it’s all been intensely pleasurable because I knew exactly what I was doing & understood how it all worked thanks to Alexa and her blog the realprincessdiaries.com.

Education & understanding how my body works as well as what’s going on when you have Anal made it so much easier. I look back on my initial foray into anal & think ‘how naive’ Would you go about giving birth without understanding the physical process? Anal’s so much easier & therefore fun if you know whats going on.

For more on the what, Where And How to’s of Anal check Out these three great Posts from the Aforementioned Alexa. Start out With Preparing for your first Anal; If I had of read this all those years ago before I even tried having Anal sex I doubt there would’ve been any pain, discomfort or worry of any kind. Wether you are male or female I recommend you read it, even if it is only so that you have a better understanding of how it all works. Guys if you like the idea  of having Anal sex with a woman I suggest you bookmark it, It’s helped at least one of my mates to venture into previously uncharted territory.

Enema’s and More on Anal Sex is like the secondary level of your Anal education from Alexa

Even now, re-reading it after turning into a total butt slut, there’s much to learn on the subject and knowledge is power. What better power to have than sexual power, so even if you’ve been fucking your ass off for years you still just might learn something.These two are the Main Anal articles on her site, but there are plenty more Anal Sex Posts on her blog - If you want to try out Anal read as much as you can both on her site and others.

2.Do you enjoy watching porn with anal sex?

Yeah, I honestly do. But I enjoy anal immensely and I watch a lot of Double Penetration Porn, I guess because it’s number 1 on my Sexual Bucket List.

But it’s Also Anal Porn that bothers me the most. It is simply not safe to do ATM or Ass To Mouth, I hate that it makes it seem in anyway acceptable and that it gives some the impression that they can request to stick their dick in your mouth after it’s come out of your ass. Same goes with Vaginal sex after Anal. There’s all kinds of bacteria up your ass, stuff you really don’t want in your Vag, I can only imagine the kinds of infections that could lead to. If you want to do Anal then stick it in another hole, wrap that dick in a condom for fuck’s sake.

3. If you’ve had anal sex, what was your first time like? If you haven’t had anal sex and want to, what do you hope for your anal sex experience?

The very, very first time I had Anal was about 15 years ago when I was 16. I must admit it was painful and only slightly pleasurable. I was doing it because he wanted to. The thought of needing, let alone using lube never crossed my mind, If we had used lube I doubt it would’ve been painful. If I knew than what I know know in regards to Anal sex I’m sure it would’ve been a hit & there wouldn’t have been a decade & a half between Anal Adventures.

I was scared to try it after my son was born, sadly haemorrhoids often develop during pregnancy as well as during the pushing part of the birthing experience. I got off pretty lightly in that department, but still it was an issue in my mind (I’ve found my mind is sometimes my worst enemy when it comes to sexual pleasure)

I also suffer from Endometriosis, a condition where the lining of the uterus (the Endometrium) decides to take up residence in places it really shouldn’t. My case is on the extreme end with it gluing all my pelvic organs together and deciding to migrate to both my lungs and the inside of my rectum and bowel. Don’t ask me how the heck it gets in such places, I just know it’s there and it causes me all sorts of issues. I was really worried about tearing things that might be stuck together, but some logical thought made me realise if something can come out without tearing anything, surely something could go back in.

So with Education, Information, Awareness of my own body & the all important lube, second time round Anal has been nothing but an absolute joy.

4. Do you own any sex toys for anal penetration? If not, do you want to?

I do, I have a stunning crystal Delights Plug I scored out of my sister, and also really enjoy my Glass Wand for Anal Play. When it comes to Anal Play with sex toys the toy MUST have some sort of flared base to ensure that it doesn’t slip inside – which would lead you to an embarrassing trip to the hospital to have it removed. Similar warning regarding Large toys and Anal Play. Unlike the Vagina the Rectum Doesn’t really stretch. You can gradually stretch what feels comfortable being inserted, but it isn’t going to stretch in length. Respect that fact, and the fact that pain means something is not right and you shouldn’t have any problems.

5. Do you always use condoms or do you sometimes allow bareback?

In no way do I recommend or condone having un-safe sex, especially un-safe Anal sex as there is a higher risk of contracting an STD such as HIV via Anal sex than Vaginal Sex. However most often My Anal Adventures have all been bareback – but also with the same monogamous partner I was with for 15 years. If ever I were to have Anal, or any form of penetrative sex with someone else there would most certainly be a condom involved.

Second time round we were using condoms for Anal until I was comfortable with it (they seemed to cause less friction & discomfort on entry), but that soon ended. It’s also important to use condoms with sex toys used for Anal Play unless they are able to be fully disinfected and sterilised like glass.

Bonus Question:

What are your thoughts on society’s negative views of anal sex?

I don’t really give it much consideration to be truly honest.But maybe the fact that the vast majority see it as being so taboo that makes it even more alluring and of course fun.

If you Want more Info On Anal Other Articles that may be of interest or assistance include:

New To Anal Sex - on the Frisky Blog – This article on Anal includes important information regarding the two different sphincter muscles and how they work. Kind of important to Understand so you don’t go hurting yourself by trying to go to fast, or trying to insert anything too big.

Anal sex from the library @ Rotten.com

And as much as it pains me to link to this site, they do have a rather good guide to Anal Sex Toys and Anal Play from the site that has become known for being the sex shop you can’t trust

Unless you are thinking about some full on Anal play I wouldn’t recommend you read this Article, but if you are looking to push your Anal Boundaries, this post could save you from serious damage & in extreme cases death. Sometimes Anal Play can go too far

My Sexual Bucket List

The Sexual Things I must do before I die

I saw a list on someone’s blog of 12 sexual experiences they wanted to have before they died. With a browsing history as long, vast and colourful as mine I’m not surprised that I can’t find the blog again. However I do know what’s on my personal ‘Sexual Bucket List’. A list of sexual acts &/or experiences I want to have, experience or explore before I die. I started out with 12 Things, but my bucket list stretched to 15 16, it may even grow in the future, but for now this is my List:

#1 Is to have a MFM threesome.I’ve taken part in a few different FMF threesomes, all of which were years & years ago, but all incredibly fun & pleasurable. I’ve even done the FFF style threesome, I just haven’t had the opportunity to participate in the MFM version of a threesome.

X Loves the idea, It’s his #1 turn on, I’m just not sure if he could cope with the jealousy that could possibly brew in the aftermath. (I don’t know If I want anything to do with him after the bullshit tantrum he threw on the weekend that ended up in a fistfight, let alone wanting to fuck him again though.) But if ever I do change my opinion of him, I’ve found the 2^nd M for the mix… or at least I think I have, not 100% sure he was serious. It’s hard to know whether or not to believe a man when he’s thinking with his dick rather than his brain – but if & when I do organise it, you will be the first to know.

I also want to experience double penetration, it’s my true number one not yet experienced fantasy, but as it requires a MFM threesome for it to eventuate it gets thrown in with MFM at #1.

#2 It’s a little Vanilla, but I want to have sex in water. I’m a Pisces and have always been at one with water, I just haven’t gotten around to having sex in the water yet. I’ve done it on beaches (North Cronulla – like in Puberty Blues) and Even the Sandhills (where Mad Max was filmed) I Just never made it to the water. I’ve heard all the awful stories of getting sand where you don’t want it, but am happy to settle for still water like a swimming pool, or a lake.

#3 Despite having slept with more than a few females I’ve never had the experience of using a double ended dildo, allowing both female partners to be penetrated by the other simultaneously. I love Pussy and could spend a year, licking, tasting, eating pussy, touching it, playing with it… – I Love all things pussy! Grinding against each other, clit to clit, scissors style feels great, Id love to feel that mixed with the sensation of penetration. I’m sure it has to be the ultimate feeling when it comes to girl on girl fucking – maybe someone slightly more experience can tell me if I’m wasting my lesbian dreams on an unsatisfying act or not.

#4 Is to give someone their un-realised fantasy. A little like a sexual fantasy Genie. Everyone has fantasies, most of us have at least one un-conventional one, one that our partner or partners have no interest in. Before I die I’d like to help make someone’s unrealised fantasy a reality. I imagine someone who’s had this deep seeded longing for years and years, one that has always been denied. For some reason when I think of this one I envision a married man despite the fact I’ve sworn never ever to fuck with another man whose married ((engaged or somehow otherwise invested in a long term relationship, especially if children are involved)). Guys a bit like the UnWanted Husband, one who’s been used, maybe abused and just ignored sexually, those who if they are married the ‘cheating’ damage has already been well and truly done – I’d like to give at least one person their deepest, dirtiest denied desire. Just as long as my actions couldn’t lead to breaking up a family. I think I could even get some kind of BDSM kink on for this one despite my general dislike of such, If it got the person in question off I’d be glad to do pretty much whatever – just no two girls one cup shit!

#5 Another is to get paid for sex, or rather have sex for money as I think the two can differ at times. As a teenager I always wanted to be a prostitute, I guess it was some kind of romantic notion caused by pretty woman((I also wanted to be a nun after watching ‘Brides of Christ’ and longed to marry Marky Mark – long before he dumped the funky bunch and became a hot movie star.. I have strange notions at times!)) and although I was propositioned once or twice, I never slept with anyone or performed any sexual act explicitly for money. But I pretty much gave it away for free to any guy who gave it a try. The reason I didn’t take the offering of $$$ when propositioned was because the guys made me want to puke,I really disliked the idea of not being able to choose who I fucked so I never became a professional teenage whore. I did accept $100 off of X for a blow job, but don’t think he really counts. But with this $105k debt looming over me, I may get to cross number 5 off my list sooner than I had expected

#6 I’d like to Be a Cam Girl. I would probably prefer to try being a cam girl before I turned to out & out prostitution. I’ve been a phone sex operator before and think that becoming a cam girl is the natural next step from there. I’ve had sex whilst people watched via web cam, so don’t think it would be a big deal to me once I got my head in the right place. My personal self-esteem and body Image both suck, something I’m working hard to improve via things such as writing this blog and participating in things like The Scavenger Hunt & Wanton Wednesdays, being a Cam girl would be a HUGE step towards my goal of loving myself & my body. If & when I do decide to go in that direction – again I’ll be sure to let you know.

#7 I want to either make another woman squirt, or teach a guy how to make me do it, so he can go on to teach another woman It has to be more fun with a partner than it is on my own and it could be teamed up with my #12 and kill two birds with one stone.

#8 Have someone eat or lick gooey food stuffs off of my skin &/or do the same to someone else. I know it isn’t really out there, but again I’ve never tried it. Same with Sex on the Kitchen bench. I’ve wanted to have Kitchen Bench sex since I was way to young to be thinking about it. The closest I ever came was with my childhood sweetheart, but for some reason we never actually had sex despite the fact neither of us were virgins…We still don’t know why we never fucked! I do have this one very particular fantasy regarding -B & my Kitchen bench, but seriously doubt that will ever eventuate.

#9 Sell my Underwear Online. I hate the word ‘panties’ or any derivative there of, but after being with someone with such a fetish It truly rubbed off on me, anyone who’s seen my tumblr feed at sexviaviolet.tumblr.com can attest to this. Considering I’m down to my last $50 this is quite likely to eventuate… if anyone wants them

#10 Have anonymous, or close to anonymous sex with someone, by that I mean no blind date style anonymous sex – But within hours of first meeting someone, I’d just like one more good, no real names, one night stand before I die…please

#11 To get really drunk and fuck like I have no Inhibitions preferably with someone other than X or -B.

Although I don’t really have any inhibitions when I’m with X, there’s so many things he’s picky about that make being truly free sexually impossible, i.e.: having to have a shower before we have sex, even if I’ve just showered, and even then he has a huge issue with going down on me, I forget the last time he did. No doggy style sex because he can’t stand the sight off my ass hole – Because My ass hole is one of those darkly pigmented ones he deems it too dirty to look at… But he’s happy to stick his dick in that ass and couldn’t care less if he pulled it out covered in shit (I know this because I asked him about it on the weekend.

Writing this makes me realise just how much he has stifled the true me.

And although I said it has to be someone other than -B, I’d love to be that way with him, he kinda deserves it after all the shit he’s put up with from me.

#12 Very very unrealistic, but I’d love to participate in some form of ‘glory hole’ style kinkiness, but I’d much prefer to be bent over and fucked than be on my knee’s giving bj’s..but I did say it was unrealistic, possibly impossible, but fuck it, it’s my list.

#13 It’s my dirtiest darkest item on my list… To live out my own one truly ruley dirty fantasy, or dirty sexual act rather. I’ve always wanted to pee in a guys mouth – don’t know quite why, maybe because I hate X and the idea of being able to be dominant and kind of abusive to him turns me on. That’s my usual go to fantasy when I need that extra push in order to cum. I imagine standing up whilst he’s on his knees, my hand tightly mingled in his hair whilst he goes down on me and I get to kind of forcibly fuck his face. Eventually pulling his head away from my pussy and peeing all over him. I’d equally like to squirt in a guys mouth, so either or, not too fussed, but I’d like to do one of those before I die. I’ve played all kinds of ‘Water Sports’ with him, both giving and receiving…Just never in his mouth ((Stupid picky bastard – sorry I’ve really got my hate on for him today))

#14 Finally…because I forgot about it two more recent sex toy items, I want to try the club vibe from ohmibod out during a Mosh Pit and fuck someone with the feel doe or similar non harness style strap on cock (is it still a strap on cock if it doesn’t actually ‘strap on’?) be it guy or girl I’d really like to try that thing out. I wonder if it feels as good as it looks, or if it is as hard to use as I’ve read. I’ve got plenty of other sex toy hopes & dreams, but there’s so many they require their own bucket List. I may even write that list today, I’m very bored and incredibly lazy today.

#15 And to finish… the most ridiculous of all. I’ve always wanted to have sex in a mosh pit, no matter how ridiculous, impossible & painful it could possibly be. Music turns me on, the higher the volume the wetter I get. I’ve had backstage sex, but never crowd side. I’m happy to die without fulfilling #15, but it’s a fantasy & deserves to be here no matter how impossible it would be in practice.

But wait I forgot one… #16 I’ve always wanted to fuck using a great sex swing. Even at my thinnest most anorexic self I wasn’t exactly light as a feather, I’d love a great sex swing so I could get into all kinds of weird and wonderful positions. A regular swing was plenty fun, I imagine a sex swing would be infinitely better, I even have the perfect basement for it – & trust me In Australia Basements are incredibly rare.. It’s really just a big area attached to the side of the garage- but the big Metal beams that are all painted a shiny deep red make it feel perfect for a sexual dungeon.

So what about you?

Do you have a Sexual Bucket List? Any Sexual experiences you want to have before you die? Any act you wish to do before you leave this life?

If you do, publish your List and leave a comment with the link to it . It doesn’t have to be 16 things, or even 12, It can be as many as you like… It’s your list. If you do & you link it back to here I’ll get off my lazy ass and make a cute little sexual bucket list button for you to use (I’m just being very very Lazy today)

The Voyeur in me would love to know what’s on your list.

Violet xx

News Screws & Reviews

All the Things going on Behind the Scenes In my World

[originally posted June 27th 2010]

[sorry about the post title, but I have a thing for stupid rhymes]

This weekend started off pretty boring and mundane. But by Saturday night I was with FWB, holed up in a great Hotel room screwing his brains out – I’m working on a post about that.

Sunday sucked, Although the goodbye kiss was sweet. I’m considering whether or not to ask FWB exactly what it is he wants from me??? I’ve been thinking that having friends with benefits is almost like having your own personal free prostitute (I do love the idea of being a professional whore, but doubt my exploits will get me boosted up out of the amateur leagues of Whore-dom!) and wonder what kind of professional service he’d like the most. The quick suck and fuck? Or a decent GFE (Girl Friend Experience)? Even something in between. I just have to work out how to ask him. Or Maybe Just take out an ad On Craigslist for a 3r

I know that X would certainly choose the suck & fuck option, but never quite know which direction FWB will go when given more than one choice. However after a few little things the other night I think he’d lean towards the GFE side of things. I’ll to get that post finished before the weekend. Along with the 55 million others that are still in draft form.

In Other Breaking News In the World Of Violet…..

I’m Now Officially a Sex Toy Reviewer

I’m pretty sure I can say that considering I got my first Package of Sex Toys to Review delivered to my door this evening -> All thanks to the lovely Nicole from AdultSexToys.com

Whoo Hooo!

I finally got my Hands on the OhMiBod I’ve been physically craving… And I’ve lost the usb cord for the iPod! Such a Violet Thing to do.

My Celebrity Crush has a Sex Video

But as I decided to take the moral high ground (after earlier taking the much lower path) I’ve removed everything regarding said celebrity Crush’s sex video. And seriously apologise for referring to it, let alone originally publishing Images from it!

And well…..that’s it

Goodbye B

I just lost the B from my FWB.

[originally Posted June4th 2010]

I’m happy for him, but am feeling seriously bummed and can’t work out why. Or rather I can’t rationalise the reason I’m feeling bummed. Perhaps because I know I can’t replace him. Because even after…like 6 months I was still sexually shy with him.

After over coming my whore #FAIL (which I was spurred to do after Wonder Whore weighed in on the situation) I ended up spending a pretty decent night with my FWB last week I’ve been dying to write about it, However I simply couldn’t bring myself to write about it without his permission. I’ve got pretty strong morals and try to have clear boundaries (at least with him I have boundaries, I won’t call him unless I’ve texted him first etc) and writing about having sex with him … Well I wouldn’t want to violate his privacy, even though he’s obviously anonymous, I’d still be scared he would see it and feel violated. Even if he never saw it I just couldn’t. I may have mentioned him, but never any of the juicy details….

So I finally send him a text message to ask if he’s be open to the idea of me writing about having sex with him. Takes him a while to respond, which is fair enough, It’s kind of a hard question to ask.

Turns out he’s open to me writing about having sex with him, but I won’t be having sex with him anymore… He went and got himself a girlfriend! I’m really happy for him, yet I’m bummed. But Can’t figure out why I’m bummed, or at least rationalise Why I feel bummed.

I believe in open relationships, Even if we were more than friends I wouldn’t have had an issue with him having sex with others. I’m not jealous. But I’m bummed… Why The Fuck am I so bummed When I’m so happy for him?

He’s a great guy, I don’t have the ability to be in a real relationship with anyone, so why do I feel so fucking down?

I guess I’m not as great as I thought I was, in the sense of detaching my heart from sex. Yet I didn’t want to pursue a relationship with him, I simply wanted to fuck him senseless. Perhaps it’s because he ended it rather than me? Am I really that shallow? Or is it because I regret holding back and not fully exploring the things I wanted to. I really, really wanted to feel him blow down my throat and anal… I wanted to have anal with him. (If I could have anal with him I could have anal with anyone.)

I seriously do #FAIL when it comes to being a whore. I will get around to writing about that night, along with the many others, but I just can’t do it right now. I can’t write about having great sex with him whilst I’m still grieving for that sex.

Perhaps I’m so bummed because in the past when mates have met new girlfriends, the new girlfriends get jealous and are threatened by their boyfriends having female friends. If that happened I think I really would be crushed.

Anyway I’m going to go hide under my doonah watch the Amazing Race and get the fuck over it.

I wish they had craigslist for the area I live in, I need a new B!

Violet xx

Would You Rather – WTMFI Week#20

“WOULD YOU RATHER…”

WTMFI Wednesdays Week #20

I’ve been putting off answering this weeks Questions, to say they make me squirm is an understatement… As my Answers depend on the situation, or rather the sexual partner. My answer’s relating to X are the polar opposite to what I would answer regarding -B. A conundrum that’s spun me into a bit of a sexual existential dilemma, but it is one that has been brewing since I had to say goodbye to -B (or at least the B part of the friendship) and I have started to consider what I want out of a FWB or NSA sexual relationship. I’ve even got X to the point where he is liking the idea of the MFM threesome more & more, yet I really am confused and don’t know what I want.

The other afternoon I had a long chat with one of my bestest mates, an ex from a million years ago. My one true love lol. He was that perfect summer romance,, a guy that truly treated me like a queen until the day he had to return home. I’ll tell you more about him one day, I’m hoping to get to see him sooner or later..anyway back to our discussion. It was a bit of a loveless sex Vs sexless love kind of debate. We both came down on the loveless sex side of things, but with conditions… No we won’t be having sex together…EVER – our time came & went and it is a beautiful love bubble I never wish to taint (although neither of us know why we never did fuck?? we certainly weren’t virgins)

I guess I’m a bit used to loveless sex as I don’t feel the love in the sex with X, nor was there love with -B, but that’s not to say I’m crossing the possibility of love off  my list of future hopes, It just isn’t a priority right now. However I do like to love the person I’m with whilst I’m fucking them – which is one of the conditions my perfect summer love mate & I decided upon.

Loveless sex is great, but you do need to know the person, you don’t need to be friends, but as long as you know them sexually & are comfortable to express yourself sexually then all is good. (I never got to that able to let go & really express myself point with -B). It needs to be something more than a random fuck, a one night stand or even just a booty call, but certainly less attachment than even a casual dating style relationship.

When I’m with someone  like, let’s say it’s an overnight type interlude – during that night I want to be able to love that person, touch them, fondle them, kiss them, spoil them, please them and really get them off. I guess you could liken it to a prostitute offering a GFE or ‘Girl Friend Experience’ style service to a regular client. Actually Yeah, that’s exactly what I want…

Someone I can spend time with holed up in a hotel room, loving them, fucking them,ordering room service with them & maybe even watching a movie together. Both completely wrapped up in each other…until check out time when we go our separate ways and return to our normal lives. Staying in touch with an email here or there, or a text or two every few days to a week, all depending on your combined schedules. I like the idea of staying in touch simply to drive each other wild so that the moment you see one another you just want to rip their clothes off.

So if there’s any guy out there somewhere between say Newcastle and Lismore & you’re interested…email me lol. Anyway back to our usual WTMFI Programming…

This Week’s Questions

1. Would you rather have quick sex OR very long sex (don’t include foreplay!)?
2. Would you rather you orgasm every time, OR your partner orgasming every time (only one of you gets to cum)?
3. Would you rather have a super intense and completely meaningless sex session OR an average, intimate and deeply personal sex session?
4. Would you rather have more foreplay and less sex OR less foreplay and more sex?
5. Would you rather roll over and fall asleep after sex OR take a shower and then cuddle?

BONUS QUESTION:
Would you rather dirty talk such as, “I love your tight/big pussy/cock. I’m gonna fuck you/pound me because you’re/I’m such a whore!” OR soft, gentle and romantic talk such as, “You are the most wonderful person in the world. I love that you do this. I want you so bad.”?

My Answers;

Would you rather have quick sex OR very long sex (don’t include foreplay!)?

Well If we aren’t including foreplay…I guess I’d say a good hard quick fuck – with lots of foreplay… at least during the week with really long, leisurely sex on the weekends. I want it all!

Would you rather you orgasm every time, OR your partner orgasming every time (only one of you gets to cum)?

Definitely them. It’s important to me that they get off, as long as I get that craving for being penetrated fed, I’m happy not to cum.

Would you rather have a super intense and completely meaningless sex session OR an average, intimate and deeply personal sex session?

This is the question that caused me the greatest dilemma. I’d have to say the super intense but completely meaningless sex at the moment, but if I were in love I’d want that deep connecting, souls entwined, don’t realise 2 hours have passed passionate personal sex.

Would you rather have more foreplay and less sex OR less foreplay and more sex?

The more foreplay and less sex, I’ve been doing the ‘skip the foreplay, please just fuck me’ style sex for far too long so I have to choose more foreplay.

Would you rather roll over and fall asleep after sex OR take a shower and then cuddle?

Either, I’m truly not fussed, but I do enjoy being able to just go ‘aahhh’ afterwards & having a smoke.

BONUS QUESTION:

Would you rather dirty talk such as, “I love your tight/big pussy/cock. I’m gonna fuck you/pound me because you’re/I’m such a whore!” OR soft, gentle and romantic talk such as, “You are the most wonderful person in the world. I love that you do this. I want you so bad.”?

Can I have a bit of both? I’m a filthy dirty talker at times, but saying I love what you are doing to me, I need you so bad – well It doesn’t require love to say such things… so Im up for all of it, or even silence.

I think I’m going through a very experimental phase in my sexual life right now. Just wish I was exploring such things with someone I didn’t know so well. After half your life it does tend to become boring & bland no matter how great the sex is.

So after all that, what do I really want? I want an exact replica of -B, but maybe one who lives closer and talks more lol

Violetxx

Get Me Off This Island Of Insanity

Australia Is No Longer Free

I’ve always lived on an Island, It’s a beautiful place to be, or at least it was an Island Paradise.

Where you can be young and eternally free, where you don’t need to worry about having your personal freedoms taken away & you are free to celebrate your sexuality with great pride. At least that What I once thought, Now I’m Ashamed to be Australian.

Wake Up Australia we are no longer free, I Suggest replacing our Existing National Anthem to something along these lines:

“Australians all let us regret
That we are no longer free
Porn’s been banned, Our net’s being scanned
It’s a controversy
As We ban those with lesser tits
Or women who squirt so rare

At This Stage, Scream Out In Rage
This isn’t bloody Fair

In Rage Filled Strains We now shall sing
This isn’t bloody fair

For those who wish to visit us & want to have a toss
We’ll take porn from your hands
Whilst raiding our own sex stores
Now Known for all of our bans
As well as all the Porn We’ve seized
We now have plans to share
Id & net history combine
This isn’t Fucking Fair

In rage filled strains we all should scream
Australia Isn’t Fair”

Australia Now Search and seize Pornography from those who are entering the Country Cuntry, rifling through your baggage, mobile phones, laptops and more as you pass through Customs.

The have Also Started Raiding Australian Sex Stores Amongst Many Other Equally Ridiculous Things, As Reported by The Australian Sex Party. (it’s a long list of Shame!)

Our Government Wishes to Impose a ‘net filter‘ on all Australian Internet Service Providers to Protect us from ‘un desirable’ Content. Another Proposal is to have ISP’s  not only store a copy of our internet browsing history, but to link such histories to personally identifiable Information such as Passport numbers and even Medical Records.

A Queensland Couple were charged after using an abortive drug similar to RU-486 (Sources: Direct Action| The Brisbane Times).

And Most disgusting of all – Australian Doctors Considering Performing ‘Surgical Cuts’ Into young female babies & children in attempt to cut back on back yard female genital mutilation.

Can Someone Please Save Me from this Fuckwittery & get me off this God Forsaken Island!

It has gotten beyond stupidity, passed straight through Insanity and gone to a place so far beyond it that it is yet to be named. Kevin Rudd may not like sex, but that’s his personal choice. I don’t give a fuck who he is, He doesn’t get to decide what kind of Porn I watch. I agree all forms of child pornography and  beastiality should be Illegal and Banned, along with Porn that includes any Illegal acts such as snuff porn, and that which shows or depicts Rape. Call me a hypocrite, but sadly Law Makers do have to bow down to the Lowest Common Denominator.

That is, Porn Depicting Rape needs to be banned or at least controlled as there are dumb idiots that can’t make the connection that it’s acting & not real, and in their stupid simple inbred minds they begin to think forcing someone to have sex isn’t just a turn on, but completely acceptable – Do you get what I’m saying? It is the Government’s responsibility to protect us from such fuckwits, however in the process of doing so they have taken it too far.

The Lowest Common Denominator theory is why we have speed limits, and rules to enforce wearing seatbelts – because some people are just so stupid they can’t think for themselves.

Why can’t I watch Women Ejaculating or ‘Squirting’? What is up With Fisting? Or Flat chested Women for that matter?  It is not their fault they aren’t well endowed. As long as a performer is over 18 & fully consenting (with the exceptions mentioned above) why can’t I watch it? Buy it? Or Partake in the making of it?

Why?

Because Kevin Rudd is a fuckwit! (sorry -B if you read this) I truly regret voting for him.

Until some foreign Knight In Shining Armour Arrives to Rescue Me – I’m Joining the Australian Sex Party (Political Party) & voting in the one true way it counts, by voting at the polls, come the next Election (Due before April 2011). As Should you.

Visit www.sexparty.org.au And follow them on twitter @aussexparty & help prevent Australia from becoming an Island Ruled with Amish like Prudes In Charge.

You can also sign the Petition against the Governments Mandatory Internet Filtering Policy at EFA. And Visit www.somebodythinkofthechildren.com as well as OpenInternet.com.au to find out how you can take action against the Governments Proposed Internet Censorship

Please Tweet & Retweet This Post before our Island Paradise turns into Big Brother Hell.

Violet xx

If by some chance you like my version of the national Anthem, please feel free to re-post it, just include a link back to this original Post